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Nightvision · 30 hearts · 120 replies

I'm dating multiple guys at once. I feel conflicted but I have to keep my options open to find "the one" and not get too invested in one at a time.

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by Yellow_Smooches · 5 hearts

I would do this but don't sleep with any of them. Be honest, drop them at the first offense and keep it pushing

by BiandMarried · 4 hearts

I prefer just sex with multiple guys at once, dating is too much work

by RainbowFruit · 3 hearts

You’re a whore

by Jellyskelly · 0 hearts

How

by spearb · 2 hearts

woman in men field

by vamppire · 2 hearts

gotta find the right person somehow

by WhimsiGothRed · 2 hearts

"The one" isnt a real thing, which is why youre having so much trouble. Its an idea brought on by purity culture with religious roots based in an attempt to get people to get married with the church. Hope this helps. Have fun! Youre not looking for "The One™️" youre looking for "the one I feel most compatible with and can see myself working with for a future with the same goals and idealogies"

by Fuji waters · 1 heart

I can’t do that 😭 it’s too difficult

by Sara Mills · 1 heart

Honestly I don’t really know what I want in a guy just scared to be rejected by an actual guy that am willing to invest on

by Smoky flavors · 1 heart

That's most likely how you would miss out on the one because maybe he's one of those guys but you won't allow yourself to get too invested

by Prometheus_NC · 1 heart

U mean fucking multiple guys This is the way….

by muscle mommy · 1 heart

I’ve tried to do that, but I generally can’t

by Stevensnewphone · 1 heart

Is was & will forever be; for the streets

by Prometheus_NC · 0 hearts

You wish you could do what she does

by Stevensnewphone · 0 hearts

Unironically ..nope

by Curlygirly33 · 1 heart

I wish i had a roster like this. Would be way easier to block the motherfucker that doesn’t give a fuck about me.

by 🗝️ Fort Gex · 1 heart

I love the guys losing their mind in here. My guys, this is the right way to date. You aren't special and your trial period is not a lock-in. This is male entitlement and why y'all can't find someone willing to put up with you. And yes, this method did work for me. He is cherished.

by Mr Thickems 😜 · 2 hearts

But when we tell women we’re dating multiple women, we’re a man whore, this that the third. Double standards go crazy here

by 🗝️ Fort Gex · 0 hearts

Did I say my thoughts on when guys do this or did you imagine that with your victim complex?

by Mr Thickems 😜 · 0 hearts

Victim complex? Women are the ones with a victim complex don’t play that shit with me 😂

by turquoise_filing · 1 heart

Unless they ask you to be exclusive , it’s alright

by violet_hydrant · 1 heart

I'm polyamorous and I try to never be in multiple new relationships at once. Relationships need a certain level of investment and focus to grow and flourish. I'd advice being intimate and romantic with one person at a time if your goal is to find and build a solid relationship, otherwise I do wish you luck and to find great love!

by TX beauty · 1 heart

Lmao me too literally

by Blaze_Man · 1 heart

Lol they're probably doing the same thing to you too.

by Ladybug03 · 0 hearts

Of course, that’s the point of dating I wouldn’t expect a guy to only be seeing me if we just met lol

by Blaze_Man · 0 hearts

Well to me you dating multiple guys is a red flag cause it tells me you can't commit yourself to one person.

by Ladybug03 · 0 hearts

I respect your opinion, it’s not for everyone and you just have to find a woman on the same page as you!

by grey_dredger · 1 heart

ur doing the right thing

by szayelaporro 🤍 · 1 heart

until theres a title date around 🤷‍♀️

by orange_scarf · 1 heart

Whore

by mint green_negligee · 1 heart

If this is the case then neither of them is the "one"🙄

by Ella Langley · 0 hearts

Absolutely 🙂‍↔️

by FTMTransGuy_777 · 1 heart

Yall… this is NOT how dating works. Yall some hoes fr 🤣🤦🏽‍♂️. Get an open relationship! I wouldn’t marry somebody who had me in constant competition

by Kinky Bi M TX · 1 heart

Nothing to be conflicted about, that’s how dating works. Boggles my mind that people conflate dating with committed relationships.