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BookishGirlie · 3 hearts · 26 replies

Hook up culture has ruined any chances of me ever finding an actual meaningful relationship. I know I'm young, but I wanna settle down. I guess I'll just be single for the rest of my life. I refuse to do hookups

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by ‎ ‎ ‎ ‎ ‎ ‎ ‎ · 0 hearts

Don't sleep with anyone for AT LEAST 3 months while dating. You'll weed out a lot of the people just seeking to hook up.

by BookishGirlie · 0 hearts

Yeah see thats the problem, I can't sleep with anyone right away because I'm demisexual and so I've been single for almost 8 years just because of that. Crazy but it's the truth, like 99% of people I swear are only looking for a hookup

by azure_means · 0 hearts

Demisexual doesn't exist. That's called being normal. Hope this helps

by azure_means · 0 hearts

Sounds like a you problem

by Fuji waters · 0 hearts

Not everyone is into it. You’ll find someone

by BookishGirlie · 0 hearts

I hope so

by Backdrop_Return · 0 hearts

Currently 75 - 80% of people are in a long relationship as they enter their 30s so you will probably be fine, statistically at least

by BookishGirlie · 0 hearts

I hope so but I've also been single for almost 8 years so it's possible I might not be

by Ladybug03 · 0 hearts

That’s not true ppl still get into long term relationships and married , if u are in a rush it’s probably giving that desperate vibe & turn guys off

by BookishGirlie · 0 hearts

Not in a rush at all. Just demisexual and people can't wait for sex

by Ladybug03 · 0 hearts

The right man will wait u have to chose the guys with the same mindset of settling down and building a partnership my bf we didn’t even have sex until 6 months just getting to know each other and building a friendship first

by BookishGirlie · 0 hearts

See I'm not sure I'll ever find that sadly

by LeadThePack · 0 hearts

All is not lost

by BookishGirlie · 0 hearts

I'm not so sure about that

by LeadThePack · 0 hearts

We can still hope. Might need to go outside of your comfort zone

by BookishGirlie · 0 hearts

Outside of my comfort zone?

by Big Rock · 0 hearts

Sounds like she is done with the 'hoe faze

by BookishGirlie · 0 hearts

Was never in the "hoe phaze" to begin with. I'm demisexual so hook ups weren't even an option for me. I've been single for almost 8 years now because people can't wait for sex

by VogonPoet · 0 hearts

Good for you! 👍

by blue_handmaiden · 0 hearts

I was just thinking about the fact that some people have been convinced that they need multiple partners and casual relations, by hormonal friends and the media. And it's become their thought process. So they're making the search hard for something genuine. Especially lately, with easier than ever consumption.

by Jimmothy · 0 hearts

Congrats and just another reason I feel bad for younger generations

by BookishGirlie · 0 hearts

Congrats to what? I'm legit losing here

by Jimmothy · 0 hearts

Congrats for not giving in to the hook up culture and sticking to your guns. Just focus on yourself for now, you’re not missing much.

by BookishGirlie · 0 hearts

True, but still it sucks. Plus I'm demisexual so hook ups weren't ever an option for me to begin with