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Cherry_glide · 9 hearts · 37 replies

The idea of adults being too young to be dateable is absolutely absurd Age gaps shouldn't be a barrier

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by violet_elixir · 4 hearts

As a 46 yo woman, I cannot relate to people in a different stage of life than me and vice versa.

by Inters · 4 hearts

It is more acceptable then interracial

by violet_nihilist · 0 hearts

What do you mean by barrier? If it's adults, it's not against the law

by Captain MN · 3 hearts

I think it does have some relevance, but it’s not the end all be all. I do think that age is typically reflected in someone’s maturity, outlook on life, living situation, goals, and hobbies. And those those are important to a relationship. But there are plenty of exceptions

by Stepuporshutup · 2 hearts

Only as long as they are ACTUALLY LEGAL ADULTS then yes, I agree.

by Apolivaras · 2 hearts

Bingo.

by lostandbored · 2 hearts

Agreed

by WanderInAwe96 · 1 heart

Nah. Age gaps absolutely should be a barrier. I will not date a man that is younger than 4 years my age. I will not date a man more than 7-8 years older than me. The younger guys are not mature enough, and with the much older guys, family and life goals are generally much different. Since I want marriage and a family, I need someone young enough to want that, and mature enough to handle it.

by Amonymouss · 1 heart

My daugher would agree 😅

by Hannah3457 · 0 hearts

I’m fine with it I like older men they know how to put you in ur place in bed

by EvilPomni · 0 hearts

It’s not absurd at all. What’s weird is thinking your old used up ass is desirable to us young people. Ew.

by BubbleButtSlut · 0 hearts

I kinda agree. I have been sleeping with older men as young as 15.

by Quiet_reader · 0 hearts

I won’t go below certain ages even though they are legally an adult

by vamppire · 0 hearts

hey i mean as long as everyone is a consenting adult it doesn’t matter too much

by dallasbruises · 0 hearts

Age gaps only exist when a woman who was perfectly fine hooking up with older men in her 20s turns 30 and suddenly considers all of it grooming. And not for her - what she did was different - but definitely for all other young women who need to agree with her beliefs on the matter.

by Yonder4ever · 1 heart

Ain’t this the truth

by TGIBBWAPM · 1 heart

I think it’s more that adults who are your peers and not teens can see your shady motives a lot more clearly? There’s a reason women your age don’t like you and it’s not because you’re some kind of catch.

by dallasbruises · 0 hearts

Nice try but I date women older than me and the post didn't say anything about teens. And it doesn't invalidate what I said. Every single woman I know that rails against age gap relationships were in one when they were younger - and instead of letting young women have a choice, they want to instead dictate what they should and shouldn't do