Is it homophobic to not want to date bi men, as a straihht woman? F20s
Yep. There's no reason to not date a man just cause he's bi. If you picturing him with a man gives you the ick, you're homophobic.
Nope.
Ah yes, having preferences and being turned off by things is not homophobic. You're a retard
If he’s not being intimate with a man while yall are in a monogamous relationship and yall are already tested then what’s stopping you from dating him? I would assume you trust the person in your relationship
THIS! I know some people joke (maybe even believe?) being bisexual means getting to have a boyfriend AND girlfriend but that is polyamory.
Incase this clarification is needed, it's possible to be bisexual and conventionally monogamous.
It’s biphobic. Especially because the arguments that people bring up about it are always based in homophobia and a lack of sexual education 🤦🏾 it can be a preference and you’re allowed to feel however you want, but it should be acknowledged that it’s rooted in homophobia, biphobia, and purity culture
It’s not. Get over yourself, you are phobic towards straight women actually
Yes. Its weird tbh. If they like you why are you insecure they'll want another?
No one is owed a relationship. Hope this helps
No it's biphobic
Your mom shd have swallowed
It was a good pun. It doesn't have to be rage against everything just because it's online
Nope... there is no such thing as a bi man, just a dude that will fuck anything... and thats GAAAAYYY
No I'm straight so I want a straight man
Not at all, thank you for leaving the bi guys to me 😋
It’s definitely not. Don’t let that mess affect you.
Id say yes or at least it's a sign that she's not very secure. Caring about someone else's preferences when they don't affect the individual at all is oddly controlling
It’s not abt preference. I’m literally not attracted to bi men. Madness.
So you can magically tell when a guy is bi? Just by looking at him?
No, you can tell you’re not attracted. I’m not attracted to gay men either.
It's a whole discussion. Unfortunately the DL group has tied themselves to the open bi and made it an issue. At least that's the what I take from comments
Btw (im OP) i dont mind if my boyfriend is bi at all! I was just curious what people thought
It’s biphobic not to date someone solely because they are bisexual.
So they're not entitled to their sexual preference like everyone else is? After all, that's what it basically is and is fundamentally no different than any other sexual preference.
It’s not sexual preference. It’s discrimination. It’s bigoted to believe all bisexual people are the same simply because they are bisexual.
It's fundamentally no different than me being a straight man that is only attracted to women. It's fundamentally no different than a lesbian only being attracted to women. That's not bigoted, that's just what a person is attracted to. Yes, it's that simple.
The more important question is: Is it sexual harassment to call someone names in order to pressure them into compromising their standards?
Calling a homophobic person homophobic is in no way sexual harassment
...but calling them that because they refuse your sexual advances is completely fine?
No one is talking about sexual advances. If you refuse to date someone you otherwise would have, only because they are bi, that is homophobic.
A little bit. Sounds insecure 🤷
To be fair, they can and have left women for a man. It’s like a known thing that happens. And a penis is something a woman can never compete with. but hey, not all bi men, thats just what ive seen and heard. The actual stigma comes from around the time that AIDS was a major concern.
Strap-ons exist and not all of them are bright neon or whacky; some are made to look and feel "like the real thing." I get they are still not "the real thing" but I do take issue with your assertion that women cannot compete. *jazz hands*
let’s put it this way: if a person wants a penis and you do not have a penis, they will want a person with a penis. *jazz hands*
It's homophobic to be straight
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People keep saying "no it's not biphobic" and then their explanation is just biphobia lmao
I'd say it is, simply because his being bisexual shouldn't affect his interest in you, and vice versa
No, it's not. Some women want men, straight men. Bi men chose to sleep with who they wanted, and that's fine. You should be able to do the same without judgment.
Yes, how does him being bi affect you?
Because a woman can't compete with a man and vice versa. In the long run, it won't work out in a relationship. God forbid they have children.
Lmao what kind of shit take is this
You're allowed to have any preferences you want when dating so it's not inherently biphobic/homophobic. But you should examine why, and there might be prejudiced beliefs underneath it
No. You have a "sexual preference" like anyone else does.
That doesn’t make sense, a sexual preference means whether you’re gay, bi, or straight
So her sexual preference can't be for gay, bi, or straight people? So-called "sexual preference" supposedly determines who she's attracted to. If she's not attracted to bi and only likes straight men, then her sexual preference is for straight men.
Who gives a shit it's your orientation and your preference, you don't owe anybody any explanation
But that isn't even orientation. It's like not being willing to date someone because they like citrus and you don't.
What shite are you talking? You're the type of rapey weirdo that makes people like the OP think they have to explain themselves
No it's biphobic af tho fix that shit