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Pretty_Havoc · 16 hearts · 51 replies

The contradiction of being asexual and polyamorous.

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by Pumpkin Queen · 5 hearts

Makes sense tho. Its about emotional connection vs a sexual one

by EvilPomni · 4 hearts

That’s not a contradiction

by Pretty_Havoc · 0 hearts

It just feels that way when dating without attraction is so hard.

by woodpaneling · 4 hearts

romantic attraction isn't the same as sexual attraction for some people, i don't understand how this is a contradiction

by Pretty_Havoc · 0 hearts

Because it feels contradictory when dating is so difficult because of lack of initial attraction.

by woodpaneling · 0 hearts

it's not that there is a lack of attraction, it's just a different attraction than what you experience.

by Pretty_Havoc · 0 hearts

Nope, initial attraction is very much not something I’ve ever experienced.

by Boofin’4Jesus · 3 hearts

A romantic relationship doesn’t need to have sex in it. And a poly person can have a romantic relationship with a sexual person and not have sex, that person can have another partner to meet their sexual needs. That’s the beauty of poly.

by Pretty_Havoc · 0 hearts

I do understand how polyamory and sexuality works given that I am both.

by Boofin’4Jesus · 2 hearts

Sorry…..I was just validating you. Nevermind then.

by Pretty_Havoc · 0 hearts

I mean, it’s wrong too, I do have sex. I’m just asexual.

by silver_boost · 3 hearts

It’s not unusual. We are co side ring it and one is more wi to the emotional relationship than physical

by gorgeousnpetite · 3 hearts

old bitches are truly delusional

by Armory · 2 hearts

The struggle be real lol

by Deirdre 🍓 · 2 hearts

There's no such thing as asexual and polyamery never ends well.

by Pretty_Havoc · 1 heart

lol okay

by Sweetestpea765 · 2 hearts

You could be a cuckqueen

by Pretty_Havoc · 0 hearts

Ew

by gold_clause · 2 hearts

I would like an arrangement like that, but just no sex. Some kink stuff and companionship.

by pepperjellie · 2 hearts

That’s called having friends

by Pretty_Havoc · 0 hearts

No, it’s called having multiple relationships.

by pepperjellie · 0 hearts

Whatever you need to tell yourself

by Pretty_Havoc · 0 hearts

I’m not in an intimate relationship with my friends lol.

by Fiji Water · 2 hearts

Confused. I am.

by Pretty_Havoc · 0 hearts

Why?

by xEmoGothx · 2 hearts

I'm the same way

by lavender_bribery · 2 hearts

You have little to no attraction to people but have multiple partners?

by Pretty_Havoc · 1 heart

Yeah

by azure_photodiode · 1 heart

The contradiction of being a Muslim atheist

by Cinny · 1 heart

That's not a contradiction at all...

by BookishGirlie · 1 heart

Try being demisexual and being single for over 8 years because no one can be patient about sex so they ghost you all the time, it sucks

by Sigma_Direwolf · 1 heart

It's called mental illness. Their fucking kind confuse one another and yet expect everyone else to accept their certifiable delusions. Fuck that! 🖕🏻😂

by Clouded Leopard · 1 heart

It's called demisexual. You're welcome.

by Pretty_Havoc · 0 hearts

No, I don’t experience sexual attraction, therefore asexual.

by Pixie Styx · 0 hearts

Demisexual is different, when you don't experience sexual attraction until you get an emotional connection

by Clouded Leopard · 0 hearts

She just wants to say absurd shit for attention. Demisexual is under the asexual umbrella. 🤷🏼‍♀️

by magenta_ranks · 1 heart

You people are confused. Go fly a f(l)ag or something.

by Pretty_Havoc · 1 heart

Ew

by grey_dust · 1 heart

Lol same. And trying to find a guy who is poly and okay with nothing sexual is rough. I gave up searching and just let my hubby do the poly thing.

by Pretty_Havoc · 0 hearts

I like sex, I just don’t feel sexual attraction.

by grey_dust · 0 hearts

I enjoy sex too, specifically with my husband. But even then my drive is low af so its just easier.

by ShyBiGirl · 1 heart

👍

by Gray wood · 1 heart

This app killed whisper , whisper was way better and with no Adds . This app sucks ass

by Kiramisu🍮 · 0 hearts

How does that work

by Pretty_Havoc · 2 hearts

I don’t feel sexual attraction, but I still enjoy sex with someone that I have a close connection with, I crave connection with multiple people and without limits and constraints.