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Katseye · 15 hearts · 72 replies

It’s dumb when people call polyamory “cheating with permission”. It’s like they don’t understand the definition of words and their meanings 😆

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by WhimsiGothRed · 4 hearts

They dont understand that you can cheat in polyamory, but polyamory itself isn't cheating. Polyamory isnt cheating. Lying, sneaking around, breaking your partners' trust is cheating.

by Katseye · 0 hearts

Exactly

by DaddySpanks · 3 hearts

Wife and I have been Poly for like 15 years, don't give a shit what miserable monogamous people think who are either jelly or cheating on the DL and just projecting.

by Bibottomswitch · 3 hearts

Cheating: when one party breaks agreed upon rules of a game or arrangement. Definitely not cheating just because we play by different rules, or even a different game all together

by Silver_blunder · 2 hearts

Synonyms are fun

by Katseye · 3 hearts

They are when they’re actually synonyms

by azure_raven · 0 hearts

You need a dictionary

by hatemen · 2 hearts

can the sun just explode already?

by sky blue_dentist · 0 hearts

Negative

by Katseye · 0 hearts

I would prefer all of the volcanos to go off at once

by Masochiste · 2 hearts

Its not for me. I like being obsessed with one person. I dont get it, but I also dont give a fuck what other people do with their lives tbh.

by Katseye · 2 hearts

Exactly!

by CurvyBunny— · 2 hearts

True

by Spacemage · 1 heart

Ok, its just people with commitment issues spreading out

by Katseye · 2 hearts

Hey, you can call it whatever you want. It’s still not cheating.

by ☀️🔆☀️🔆☀️🔆 · 1 heart

Its cute when you think polyamy is a relationship type

by Katseye · 1 heart

It’s not if you don’t want it to be. Something called consent.

by ☀️🔆☀️🔆☀️🔆 · 0 hearts

When did I say it wasnt an agreement? You are not dissing out what you think it is

by Katseye · 0 hearts

👍

by SweetCouple · 1 heart

Exactly! Cheating implies you're being dishonest and breaking a rule that was established. If only people understood how much closer polyamory can actually bring you to the person you love ya know??

by StupidForTrying · 1 heart

Your definition of the term polyamory presupposes that a relationship can be anything other than one man and one woman. You are not made to have more than one partner that’s why it’s cheating by definition. Not your fucked up version of what you think. It could be defined as because you wanna live in La La Land. The actual definition which is not up for you to change.

by Katseye · 1 heart

You’re defining monogamy sweetheart, not cheating. Cute that you feel so strongly about being wrong 😆

by StupidForTrying · 0 hearts

I know what I am defining, but you think by defining something as different, that it some how changes what exists. Polyamory is still cheating. You just try to use the term “polyamory” to excuse it. Polyamory was never intended to define romantic relationships. Bottom line, just because you can define something doesn’t make it right. It’s cheat by another name. And it’s destructive to our society.

by Katseye · 0 hearts

Except it’s not cheating. It’s not defining something as different if they literally have different definitions. So yeah, not cheating because people have these things called boundaries, enthusiastic and not coerced consent and *gasp* knowledge of the situation. Just because you don’t agree with it doesn’t make it cheating. Because it’s not cheating no matter how badly you want it to be. So yeah, polyamory, cheating and monogamy all mean different things because they’re all different things with different meanings and definitions. Hope that helps 😊

by azure_raven · 1 heart

They dont

by lime_plywood · 1 heart

We can’t define what a woman is.

by Katseye · 3 hearts

Where in this post did it talk about sex and gender? You’re obsessed

by lime_plywood · 0 hearts

I don’t believe I referenced any previous comment? I’m obsessing with what? Are you ok??

by Katseye · 0 hearts

Are you?

by ⋅˚₊‧ ଳೃ࿔ · 1 heart

It’s not cheating but it’s for ugly people

by Katseye · 3 hearts

I’m sorry that you weren’t fortunate enough to meet hot people

by Degenrex · 1 heart

It’s because that’s what it is. Open relationships are one thing but allowing your partner to fuck other people with no inter jection is cuckoldry.

by Katseye · 5 hearts

Except it’s not cheating. It’s not monogamy, but it’s not cheating if all parties consent. Hey, some people love being cucks. They’re not being cheated on if they consent. Hope that helps sweet cheeks 😊

by Degenrex · 0 hearts

I’d love that if it was atleast addressed to me. I wouldn’t see it as a betrayal if it was designated.

by Katseye · 3 hearts

Yeah, that’s what polyamory is. You and your partner(s) agreeing to your chosen boundaries. Anything outside of what you guys have consented to is then cheating as there was no consent as well as acting in ways you know would hurt your partner and betray their trust regardless of their knowledge of the act/actions.

by grey_oblivion · 1 heart

That’s because they don’t.

by Katseye · 2 hearts

At all

by violet_kinase · 0 hearts

This is true. Protect yourself

by ☀️🔆☀️🔆☀️🔆 · 0 hearts

Grow up

by Katseye · 1 heart

Says the person spamming instead of moving on. Take your own advice.

by Katseye · 1 heart

You’re literally coming to the dm’s to come cry some more. Get over yourself.