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That sports guy · 2 hearts · 22 replies

My girlfriend says she wants to wait a year into marriage before having kids, feels like a dealbreaker

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by silver_railway · 4 hearts

The horror of enjoying your first year of marriage before trying for kids

by That sports guy · 0 hearts

Nothing says we can’t enjoy marriage with a child, I don’t see why we should wait

by silver_railway · 1 heart

Because she may not be ready to be pregnant yet. That's her call.

by That sports guy · 0 hearts

That doesn’t mean we should avoid it, she wants me to use condoms on our wedding night, that’s not negotiable to me

by Honeyybe · 1 heart

Shut up. Not your body not your rules. Dont like It leave. She deserves better

by Shiny-cherub · 1 heart

Dealbreaker to be in a settled commitment before bringing kids into it?

by McSancho · 1 heart

Why

by That sports guy · 0 hearts

Because I want kids and I don’t want to wait

by McSancho · 0 hearts

Does she want kids after the year

by PinkL0ve · 1 heart

Just break up then , no one should be rushed or pressured to have kids and if u are in a rush just get with a lady who feels the same

by No-way-see · 1 heart

Oh shut the fuck up and relax- let me guess, you’re a MAGA douchebag trying to capture his “trad-wife”. Eat shit

by That sports guy · 0 hearts

What’s wrong with wanting kids? I have one, I want more kids, I love being a dad

by Randomlyy · 1 heart

Think yourself lucky you can. My girl is getting pregnant by someone else

by No-way-see · 0 hearts

This will be the result when this douche bag realizes his stock is not as high as he thinks it is and she smarten up and gets the fuck away from a clown like this

by That sports guy · 0 hearts

My “stock” is irrelevant when it comes to love, I’ve seen absolute pigs with gorgeous young women and they’ve already got 4 kids, she can do FAR better than him and she’s pregnant with his 5th

by SoftDomina · 0 hearts

So trapping the relationship early. Sounds like a red flag. She needs to run

by BunnyLady · 0 hearts

Great, set her free to find a better partner

by orchid_wingtip · 0 hearts

Better yet, no kids at all.

by Sims world · 0 hearts

Lucky you she need to fullfill every happiness into marriage first , responsibility came with a persone you two will get less space then right. Enjoy lots build a bond that must last this lifetime

by Oatmalk · 0 hearts

How fast do you want her to have kids? If you get married in September do you want her to be pregnant in November of the same year?

by magenta_racket · 0 hearts

I don’t want kids at all but my bf does and we’ve been together for 4 years lol