Why if one man failed you the rest of the guys you meet has to deal with your trust issues?


Why do you think it was only one man?
So your point is, "if a woman fails us, we should do same to rest of the women what you do to men"
That’s not what I said at all lol
So how would you like to womansplain that shit you said earlier?
"One" lol
reason 564 i dislike men: they lack empathy
Because trauma is a bitch! And it take alot of time and constant retraining of your nervous system to get control of it. If you can’t handle that them find someone else because they deserve better then you.
How does them not being able to handle it make them a bad person….so u want someone to date someone with trauma and eventually traumatize themselves by being In a relationship that probably comes with a lot of chaos, drama, pain, etc?
Because trauma can be like that. The one boyfriend I had was really really bad, but I haven't sworn off dating men. Though it does happen that I'm dating women anyways lol
Men are all bad
Its unlikely it would be just one
They don’t, but no one gets to just demand my trust. Trust is earned and gained over time. Not handed out like a commodity.
Both bitter men & women do that, I would just move on to the next who doesn’t have all that baggage
We're not bitter for being betrayed, we're broken. If you can't accept we need help then that's on you to move on
Yes I agree, that’s what I said. To just move on to a person with less baggage. Ive already been in a relationship like that before & someone taking out their frustrations and trust issues on you no matter how much you love and reassure them and they refuse therapy at the same time, eventually wears you down and gets exhausting. I’ve moved on and am much happier and peaceful now.
It's the same thing with men, and it's called trauma.
Because it was never just one man...
Because not enough people go to therapy.
Trauma. Same goes for some men struggling with women. Their job to work through that shit. Been there, done that. Ultimately isn't fair for the men/women who are being accused of things they haven't done or wouldn't do.
It’s never just one man…
We could ask men the same thing
That's how life works
It's just how some people are wired. Some people base their opinions on individual identity, some base them off group identity. If you are the latter then you expect people in one group to all behave the same way.
You gay dawg
You ignored all of the actual gay posts which is like 70% of the feed nowadays. To call me gay for a thought? Is this a case of having your ass functioning as a brain?
You gay dawg
It’s deep seated then.