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Sarahbanana · 29 hearts · 138 replies

So odd that people think a woman can only have a high libido if she's got trauma or daddy issues. Women can't just enjoy sex without people thinking it'd a result of trauma. Shits annoying

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by zzzzzz🪽 · 5 hearts

right like why the infantilization

by Sarahbanana · 1 heart

I never thought of it as infantalization but you may be onto something with that

by zzzzzz🪽 · 2 hearts

they treat us like we’re not grown adults just liking sex its annoying

by cuteblackgirll · 4 hearts

Men hate consent, they hate women who will have sex with them without convincing or waiting (that’s why they shame women for being “easy”, they need to feel like the conquered someone when they have sex)

by Bite me7 · 0 hearts

You know nothing

by cuteblackgirll · 0 hearts

Untrue. If men weren’t disgusting, you wouldn’t be shaming women who have sex with you, after they have sex that you initiate

by Bite me7 · 0 hearts

Tf are you even babbling about child ? Hush the adults are talking weirdo . Funny how you jump right to the insults though every woman in this post is just like the other one.

by whorrific · 3 hearts

men just wish we were all broken so they can feel superior. theres a reason men like "broken women".

by Bite me7 · 0 hearts

Nope not true most men don’t want the broken basket case to have to deal with.

by whorrific · 1 heart

you got a lot of experience dating other men? you know what YOU want, which is fair - theres always exceptions to every rule. however, I do not think you're a gay man with man-on-man experience to know what WE experience men wanting. but fuck, I've been wrong once before.

by Bite me7 · 0 hearts

What kind of dumbass question is that No lady have a lot of experience being a man you idiot

by grimkittens · 3 hearts

literally. ‘promiscuous’ behavior is viewed as a mental illness in women as if it’s somehow worse than the thousands of women doing the same amount of sexual acts without any enthusiasm/consent. like there are bigger fish to fry

by mint green_replacement · 3 hearts

Just like men some women just like to fuck no reason needed!!!

by Skaldic · 2 hearts

Sex is healthy, when it's safe and consensual. God forbid a woman enjoy her body, right?

by Coffeeeeee · 2 hearts

Same when we're not that into sex... its not a result of trauma. I just got bored of it. same shit different person, just kinda repetitive after a while

by Teresa Draco · 2 hearts

Just another way for men to dump more misogyny on us. Guys with high body counts are celebrated. Meanwhile women are called sluts. Double standards.

by Lips r sealed · 1 heart

Women have more double standards than men. Kind of fun you would say that.

by Ivory_tidal · 2 hearts

I actually struggle a lot with feeling hypersexual because of this weird double standard

by Bite me7 · 0 hearts

Oh my God, you can’t make this shit up so it’s our fault. You’re a slut? Interesting …

by Red feminist · 2 hearts

God forbid you are just a horny women who love men and women

by Old4yngrWis · 0 hearts

I agree

by guy_speak · 0 hearts

that's too good to be true:) kidding , but everytime i think like that i feel a little guilty

by pink_melon · 0 hearts

Some women just enjoy sex

by Certifiedstoner · 2 hearts

Right, god forbid a woman be okay with her sexuality and enjoy sex.

by Waxflower · 2 hearts

It would help if people stop enforcing the idea that women hate sex. Ok yes we got less testosterone so we’re not going to be as horny as men all the time but there are women who do have high libidos and shouldn’t be an issue. Doesn’t mean she’s trying to fuck the whole town

by szayelaporro 🤍 · 2 hearts

a man has a high libido and he's "just being a man", a woman does and her childhood gets speculated about 💀

by pink_melon · 0 hearts

Nah, its if you are really kinky its assumed abuse

by szayelaporro 🤍 · 0 hearts

yeah that's the speculation

by fuchsia_socialism · 2 hearts

That's because a lot of straight men don't actually like or love women. They think wanting intercourse means they like us but they don't. And they don't care about what would actually make us have a higher sex drive. They would just rather put negative stereotypes on us if we don't have high drives. A lot of men don't like this reality but women often actually have incredibly high sex drives if not higher than the man's but it is deeply related to the quality of her partner, how she is treated and the quality of her life. The majority of women work full time jobs now but also still do the majority labour in the home, it's even worse if she has kids. Most women's sex drives aren't low, they often masturbate a lot because they want the release they just don't want to have sex because their partners make them feel more like a mother than a wife. A lot of women have LESS work and are less stressed after divorce because the man is adding more to her plate. Men who contribute equally around…

by BarryCaulkinah · 0 hearts

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by Bite me7 · 0 hearts

It’s wild how much you women who are so out of touch with what men think actually think you know about men. You know nothing. Absolutely nothing you’ve said has any validation or truth to it, it’s not what men think. Stop speculating because you don’t know shit.

by Bite me7 · 0 hearts

Zero accountability in life must be nice always blaming stuff on someone else ffs lady tf outa here with your Novella that is absolutely fucking wrong

by violet_elixir · 2 hearts

Yeah my swinger sex life is because I enjoy it, not because I had shitty parents.

by Bite me7 · 0 hearts

I love the fact that you own it most men do that’s on some real shit. I’m probably the biggest whore on this thread, but I own it and that’s not what it’s about. lol

by Cornell420 · 2 hearts

Who thinks that ? Lots of women are like cats in heat

by Sarahbanana · 0 hearts

Plenty of people do. I have talked to people who do and have heard of people who do.

by Bite me7 · 0 hearts

So no one , you’re just speculating got you. BC all the men in this thread are disagreeing if you don’t notice, but that doesn’t matter to you lady because you’ve gotta be right

by vamppire · 1 heart

we all get horny fr

by MotAAoAFU · 1 heart

It sucks when the guy kills your drive. Yes ive had that happen. It sucks trying to get it back

by RBF Life · 0 hearts

Yup this is a fact

by Silver_blunder · 1 heart

Not all women even enjoy it at all

by violet_nihilist · 0 hearts

Yeah, there are different kinds of women with different preferences and libidos

by Larkinnn · 1 heart

I do think it's right more often than not proportional though, at least from my experience

by yellow_vibrissae · 1 heart

My trauma makes me want it less often

by Muzzled_mutt · 1 heart

I have a high libido because of my trauma and my mommy issues

by pink_melon · 0 hearts

Mommy issues?

by Mnstrfckr · 0 hearts

Same.. it's also a form of dopamine seeking for my ADHD and anxiety

by purple_orchestra · 1 heart

I like sex when they’re actively giving me trauma and daddy issues, uno reverse!

by guy_speak · 1 heart

from what i understand the concept is that if they are usually into cnc it's due to trauma

by PinkPonyPiper · 0 hearts

Definitely not always. No trauma anddd cnc is the fantasy 😂

by ☆Dexa☆ · 1 heart

Thats a symptom of misogyny.

by Bite me7 · 0 hearts

Of Course it is everything is the man’s fault you’re a joke. What’s that a symptom of?