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BigandhEDSGirl · 23 hearts · 132 replies

If men are so safe why do fathers teach their daughters to fear men?

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by Redblueyello · 3 hearts

My dad didnt teach me that

by Redblueyello · 1 heart

My mom used to say to though

by nonyabizzz · 1 heart

Should have

by Redblueyello · 0 hearts

No, I know that men are more likely to commit crimes but that doesn’t mean that I should fear every single one of them.

by Innerclitdemon · 3 hearts

Nah any negativity over men is a single mom mentality.

by BigandhEDSGirl · 0 hearts

Weird since I wasn't raised by a single mom

by Innerclitdemon · 0 hearts

Who gave you this ideology

by BigandhEDSGirl · 1 heart

Being cat called walking to school by old men at 12

by ChúrchMôm · 3 hearts

My dad tried to teach me about men but I didnt listen

by magenta_wardrobe · 2 hearts

I would pick the bear every time

by magenta_wardrobe · 2 hearts

I would pick the bear every time

by yellow_vibrissae · 2 hearts

Men are not safe.

by yellow_mean · 2 hearts

Because not all men are safe. Just like not all women are safe. I grew up around the stranger danger and i would pay attention only to dogs I did not know. Human beings i did not know would get ignored by me lol

by Waxflower · 2 hearts

I don’t recall anyone saying men are safe. Most men won’t hurt you but it will most likely be a man that hurts you.

by BubbleButtSlut · 1 heart

I wish someone taught me that. I spent my high school years getting groomed by dozens of old men, and they used me up

by Truthhurtsbtch · 0 hearts

Same 😮‍💨 never had my parents sit down with me about anything. Been SA as a child and groomed by all types of older men growing up. I was already hyper sexually active by 13 😪

by MissLuckyBlue🧿 · 1 heart

They wouldn't even leave their daughters alone with their best friends yet they still remain their friends. Bunch of sick sad men

by Sir Respexual · 1 heart

Well, we don't love being safe with condoms lol

by Rose_Purplee · 1 heart

The thing is being taught to fear men doesn’t help either, when I ran into a predator it didn’t help that I was already wary of him

by nonyabizzz · 0 hearts

A warning can only do so much

by magenta_wardrobe · 1 heart

Because not all men are safe I even teach my son

by green_landing · 1 heart

This post is rage bait by a retard

by EvilPomni · 1 heart

Exactly

by SummerSmith · 1 heart

If mothers are so safe why do they abuse and kill their kids? And it’s usually for dick. Or they let their boyfriends sexually abuse their kids. But yeah, it’s only men huh?

by SummerSmith · 0 hearts

Yes! Shitty mothers give and sell their kids to men for money and drugs.

by SummerSmith · 1 heart

No!!! The mothers NOT PROTECTING THEIR CHILDREN is the problem!! Do you have brain cells? I experienced abuse from a mother figure, she’s lucky she didn’t kill me but so many kids don’t have that luck. So many mothers abuse and murder their children! It’s not just men. Get your head out of your ass and focus on the REAL victims, CHILDREN!!! Mothers are also a danger to kids

by BigandhEDSGirl · 0 hearts

Check your statistics. It is mostly men who do those things. Your situation is the minority of what happens. And even in your situation, if the men were not the predators, there wouldn't be anyone they could take money from for those acts.

by SgtSlaughter · 1 heart

If women are so independent why they asking for father's to teach them - thats your logic btw

by BigandhEDSGirl · 0 hearts

N

by BigandhEDSGirl · 0 hearts

I didn't ask to be taught. I was just taught

by SgtSlaughter · 0 hearts

You sound thankful 🙏

by Kitchen Sink · 1 heart

The only people in my life that have told me to avoid men were other men😂

by Only_Move · 1 heart

Shitty parenting. Should teach them the value of a good man and what to look for by setting a good example themselves

by GIGAN‼️RISE‼️ · 0 hearts

not wanting your kid to end up dead in a ditch isn't shitty parenting.

by yellow_basin · 1 heart

Unfortunately, it’s family members who kill kids more often than strangers.

by GIGAN‼️RISE‼️ · 1 heart

only because family members have more access to them and we're cautious around strangers

by lime_bronze · 1 heart

They know what they were like as boys so they panic

by Badwolfdrwho · 1 heart

Real fathers teach her daughters how to defend themselves against anyone and also teach him not to take candy from strangers

by BigandhEDSGirl · 0 hearts

Why would they have to do that if not all men?

by Badwolfdrwho · 0 hearts

Again anyone there are a lot of crazy women out here to if you don’t think so look at the ones that kill their own kids

by BigandhEDSGirl · 1 heart

9% of family annihilations are caused by the mothers.

by I love You 3000 · 1 heart

I don't teach my daughter to fear men but I do teach her to respect her surroundings. Men aren't the issue. Bad men are. Just like bad women are. Teaching ppl to be perpetual victims who are afraid of their own shadow is embarrassing for you as the parent and your child. Instead teach them to take responsibility for their situation and be aware of what could happen but not to lead with fear.

by Witchyways · 1 heart

Who said that men were safe?

by BigandhEDSGirl · 3 hearts

Men

by Backdrop_Return · 0 hearts

Parents teach their kids to be aware of ALL dangers and how best to avoid dangers. Falling off a bike and smashing your head on the concrete is dangerous, but we don't say "be scared of bikes" we say "always wear a helmet"

by ThinkTwice · 0 hearts

Start the clock till when some Zoomer lib says the word "bear" ...(If they haven't already)

by BigandhEDSGirl · 1 heart

I'm 31, worked in a zoo and I still pick the bear. 🤷‍♀️ Bears are not as violent as people think

by ThinkTwice · 0 hearts

Can't fix stupid . Thank you for providing proof Did you get attention? That's nice. Commence meltdown

by BigandhEDSGirl · 0 hearts

I'm sorry you don't know how bears work and how you can't see the point of that conversation.