Fwbs make relationships completely useless. Why work for something someone gives for free?
guys, this is GOOD news! fwbs keeps lazy trash like this out of the dating pool!!
Lol the only good way to look at that shit lol 😂
I know. You idiots just like keeping the status quo then bitch why you can't find a good person later. Have fun with that.
Being single is the best as a woman. Men rarely have anything to offer me.
Lol, men offer so much. Women offer absolutely nothing
I said to me. I didn't say to anyone. Other than my dad, men have never offered me anything worthwhile.
That's a you problem you need to fix them or just be gay. Women in general offer nothing to men except pussy and some men get that for free.
FWB are just for fun, never supposed to be anything other than physical and should come with ground rules. Relationships are an emotional and deeper, people just don’t know how to have a real relationship anymore
You'll have to stay open and honest in any relationship you want to enter
100% true. Just feel like people say they are in a relationship but never get past the physical. If that’s the case, then that’s a FWB without the title
I mean what you say is right, however, relationships are usually just money pits, work and no reward. At least with an FWB, you get something for nothing.
I prefer the quality ones who won't and don't fuck their friends. They're worth all the effort.
That's not what an FWB is and that has nothing to do with this post
Well, relationships are supposed to be about more than sex so there's that.
Like what
Coffee?
At least you're proud of your red flags
What red flags? Integrity? Pretty sure that's not a red flag.
No, pretending like relationships are just about sex or calling them "money pits." If you're incapable of a healthy relationship, just say that, it's quicker
They are money pits. I'm sorry you don't like the truth, but for a guy, that's all they are. Men don't really get much from relationships these days especially because FWB concept exists. What do you think men should get out of a relationship?
The fact you see friendships as transactional is exactly why women avoid anything with men these days. You’re apart of the problem but you already know that cuz you stay acting like a fuck ass piece of steaming dog shit all over this app. Or you don’t have a shred of self awareness and think your childish behavior is normal
Here we go, an idiot shooting the messenger. Hey, dumbass, read the post. Respond about the post. Nowhere did I say that friendships are transactional. Friendships are the last sacred relationships in the world these days. You women destroyed relationships with your need to be with multiple men then suddenly want something more emotional after your cooch got destroyed. No guy should be the designated man servant to a woman who has nothing to offer. Women need to keep real relationships sacred and not fuck a bunch of guys then elect some moron to be your emotional man servant.
You absolutely did imply friendships are transactional. Also women have platonic friendships with men all the time. If you’re that much of a fuckin puritan about sex because you can’t help but think about other men’s dicks the entire time you’re fucking her just go find one of those crazy Mormons that waits til marriage
Oof someone can't handle the truth and it shows. Listen, an FWB does not mean all friendships are based on sex. Anyone here can tell you that. Personally, friendships are close to my heart. I value them. An FWB is just some idiot who another idiot fucks. They aren't even really that close of friends. I understand women have plutonic relationships all the time. That has nothing to do with this post. Do I need to explain what I am talking about? I am glad to do so.
you’re best with fwbs based on this.
I don't have an FWB. I'm always the scmuck in a relationship.
work on the self loathing maybe
Not self loathing. Read the post.
After reading some of your replies, I don’t think you actually like women. You are attracted to them physically and sexually, but not spiritually and emotionally. This is not said as an insult. I think if you want to have sex with a woman and have no intentions to date them, then simply don’t and make it known since the beginning to avoid any headaches.
What would women have to offer that's more than sex?
IDK? I just know my husband comes home and hugs and kisses me tightly. We do a lot of things together. Camping, off-roading, shooting, cooking, watching movies and shows, watching UFC fights, muay thai or jiu jitsu, concerts (we like the same music), amusement parks, 3D printing, we’ve travelled through Japan twice already. He could do all of these things with a dude, he does do some of them with his friends (he has plenty of male friends), but he wants to do them with me. 🤷🏻♀️ Idk what exactly I offer him, comfort, companionship? But at the end of the day, we’re always laughing and comforting one another when things are rough. ☺️
So I think IF you want something nice, just find someone you’re truly compatible with. Idk what kind of negative experiences you’ve had
my marriage is about a lot more than sex. I sincerely pity you.
Awww poor simp. I'm glad you have a mommy to protect you
I'm a woman, silly. don't let the username fool you, women can be Godzilla fans too.
Friends with benefits don’t make sense to me. If you’re just having sex with them that’s not a friendship and is more like repeated hookups, if you’re hanging out with them beyond just having sex and getting to know them and neither of y’all are sleeping with anyone else, you might as well date each other.
Trust and reliability during difficult times
Yeahh...women tend to make the difficult times much worse
Nothing is ever free. Especially sex.
It is for fwbs, it's kind of disgusting
Relationships are more than sec
Yeah, it's a money pit with a bit of sex mixed in.
Too many men and women who can’t be alone and are easy.
I’m pretty open to friends with benefit
Here's the grand question: if a woman has had an FWB, what does she have to offer a partner?
I love how people say this is a dumb take but cannot begin to explain why. Can someone explain why relationships have meaning for a guy while fwbs exist? You know, other than the fairy tale of emotional support or whatever because we all know women are horrible at that, at least with dudes.
I'll leave it here before you block me since the conversation YOU started hurt your spirit. Relationships are different from FWB. Marriage has always disproportionately benefited men. Many women provide emotional support with no reciprocation. As have men, because being a terrible partner is a human issue, not a woman thing. I say this as someone who read YOU say that my bad experiences were just because I am "surrounded by losers" its the same in reverse and pretending it isn't is just a commitment to misogyny.
Marriage does at all benefit men. Men get absolutely nothing from marriage. Men don't even get sex from marriage. You want to believe all men are misogynist out of the gate and do what all women do. Deny and take. Do women actually believe men get something out of signing their life away in a marriage? Marriage is a horrible horrible thing for men. It's a trap for women to get money from.
Men have done studies to directly refute that first statement. Its widely known for people who believe in facts over feelings. Women literally have to give up their identity for marriage. Most men dont have enough money to be trapped in marriages, but I see.. you dont believe in facts.
Dumb take
Explain please? Because it makes no sense to me.
Then you shouldn’t be in a relationship cus those don’t offer the same things
If I offer one thing in a relationship, it's one more thing than what women offer.
That depends on how you developed the FWB in the first place. If you developed it with transactions or whatever then that's what the relationship is based on.
I've never been in a good relationship or had a fwb so honestly idk why I bother talking to women
Lol maybe you aren’t luck I can keep your company here with my content
Not interested
You do realize that friends with benefits is a feminist idea. If you want to be upset about it then stop listening to the dumb logic. Feminists used FWB as a way for women to say I don't want a relationship with you but want you to provide for me without the relationship. Smfh. Stupid because now women hate the term.
God, you're retarded.
Triggered much. 🤣🤣🤣
I understand that, however the concept is a reality. Because of this reality, relationships just become useless work with no reward. Why add extra work in one's life?
Fwbs are just people who want relationships without obligation. Fuck that
Sounds like a better version of the money pits people call relationships though
It’s the perks of a relationship without the pressure or the BS that often come with them.
Agreed, it invalidates relationships
Why did you agree to that
Never had an FWB, I'm always the shmuck who ends up in a relationship
Try something else first and see where it lead to
Lol that's the problem! Then you add extra work