Can I ask a question without hostile answers cuz I see it a lot, why do some men get angry at other men who like to spoil women or financially take care of their woman? It’s not like it’s affecting them?
Jealousy I think.
Absolutely no man is jealous of some dude who has to pay for a whore. If a man is jealous its of the dudes money not that hes able to spend his money on whore.
I’m confused. Taken care of your woman makes her a whore? Cause I see lots of men talk about wanting to be a provider
It is affecting men. It helps set a ridiculous standard for some ladies. Less women in the pool to date/fuck because they only go for some guy who buys them shit. And on top of that they are just all hoes who wont even be loyal to that dude. They usually have multiple dudes doing the same. This is not really a problem for me because I make pretty good income but I can definately see how this affects m3n in general.
But it’s her coochie she can do what she want with it lol
For sure but you asked the reason and I gave you what I suspect is very likely a reason. Dudes opinion and hate towards her decision isnt stopping her from being able to do it.
I think you nailed my annoyance with simps. If they didn’t exist, leaches wouldn’t get that stupid idea in their head.
I feel like spoiling and taking care of a woman after conflating two different things. It's right and good for a man to support his partner. If a man is spending a lot of money on a woman that doesn't truly care about him or is a spendthrift, that is a problem.
true. sucking up to someone and pampering them are two different things
Because those men aren't a part of the boys will be boys club AND the men that get mad at that don't really like women. They prefer men because everything they do is to get approval from other men. I believe that they only like women sexually if that and that's only because sleeping with countless women and treating women worse than they would a dog gets them approval from other men. Men don't like anyone that doesn't fit in the boxes that they want to put them in.
It's not so much anger as tough love. It's like grabbing someone by the shoulders and shaking them to their senses.
Are you really doing that when you impact their relationship for the worse ? I mean all this does is signal that the women can not rely on you as the man to take care of them when they do get pregnant of sick. If you cant share wealth togheter then sorry but you dont trust each other then and you are not there for them when they need you
Well I don't get involved in people's personal lives or relationships unless they are making public statements about them. And that's what the issue is. What goes on between you and yours is your business but when you broadcast your expectations on to strangers they can come away thinking that those are the expectations of everyone, and it's not. As for being infirm or pregnant then of course you would look after your partner but that's an entirely different situation. Do you know what also helps during pregnancy and illness? If you both work hard and are money conscious and save up enough to get you through those times whilst you both can.
You realise you cant force a pregnant woman to actually work ? Yeah I see you and its not pretty. Its not about standards , its about your partner and the care you extend to. If you would say that to me , I would run to the hills because you actually deflect on women who cant work during pregnancy which is more common than you want to think. Keep acting as if women need to offer 150 and you barely 50% of the load
Because they're upset at the standard. Fact is, many men use money because they have no other qualities. The ones who have no money tend to complain about them not having money rather than working on themselves. Men are having a hard time with the idea that they need to or should work for a partner.