(Un)popular opinion:I don't think body count SHOULD matter as long as you don't have kids. The minute you have a child,nah, that shit mattered. Idk make sense to me
Make no sense whatsoever but hey, carry on
How do those two even correlate
That makes absolutely no sense
I don’t even think it mattered in that case either, as long as you know who the father is. But even it doesn’t really matter, it’s more of you just gotta figure out who it is which can be done with a dna test.
Should is a weird word. I don't think it should or shouldn't matter. Depends on the person. If they value body count, I find it weird and arbitrary, but ok.
It doesn't matter then either. What matters at that point is if you are comfortable dating a parent or not
True true , you're right
Body count doesn't matter at all
Nope, this is why your population/demographic is raising fatherless, stupid children. Stupid shit like this is why we have a fallen and broken society.
I'm sorry,I wasn't trying to disappoint you.I'm trying be realistic.Having sex isn't what is failing our demographic , its the people having those relation ridiculously
However, I absolutely understand I'm not trying promote anything unhealthy, just a balance
It's not just "having sex" it's the complete disregard to your own people's stereotypes. The guys are absent and criminals, and the women are loud and aggressive. There is no self reflection or steps being made to make the situation better. It blows my mind. And it's so bad, the history of Planned parenthood was designed specifically for your demographic. Which isn't just "white people" but jiu-ish. The fact that there isnt a coordinated effort to better yourselves in the way you (both women in general, but also the black demographic) behave is baffling to me. The whole ideology of "body count don't matter" comes from the same people who actively WANTS your demographic to be kept down. This isn't meant to be mean, but an effort to say the real part out loud.
People who worry about body count are just looking to be judgemental.
You do know someone could’ve only ever fucked one person in their entire lives and still get kids out of it right
You know what, I have 3 baby Daddy's. I should have sat my ass down and stayed home 😭😂
🫂damn , it's ok
This lowkey made me sad like damn
Im sorry ❤️
It always matters
That makes no sense lol
Its makes sense to me but full disclosure can't explain why ,so my apologies on front
Makes no sense to me. I'd rather a man with a kid than a kid less man whore.
Understandable
You're not wrong.
How does a damn kid change that in anyway??
It’s not something I’d ask early on but I feel like having too many partners or sex with too many people could be a sign of underlying psychological problems so in that sense, it could be a bad thing
Translation: she's a whore
One : and? Two: take one to know one, slut 😂
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PLS be pro choice talking like this, bismillah!!
I am , and I wish most ppl were
whew! had me scared lolol
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Nope. Sorry. Too high a count is proven to be more promiscuous and less faithful
How high is too high for you ? Jc , no judgment
Yeah complicated. I understand how the logic might feel but it really shouldn’t matter.
Right like shouldn't but get it, like doesn't matter to me until you tell me you have x amount of bm's, you dont care about your health let alone your sexual health, you're every week with someone different. So body count isn't the issue, its the character, your self esteem, etc.
Like I'm not saying have unprotected reckless sex, I'm saying as long as the person is safe , it really should not matter
Yeah things like that. I’m not fussed by someone’s body count but I worry about judgment (and/or mental health) if you’re like 25 and have been with 250+ people.