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cyan_minute · 4 hearts · 31 replies

I don't know which is worse making your life with someone that's just convenient or to keep searching, always be alone, and never find love.

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by pink_lounge · 1 heart

Well love isn't really a thing so

by BookishGirlie · 1 heart

Considering I've been single going on 8 years, it isn't too bad to be alone but then again I've just gotten used to it

by who knowss · 1 heart

Either way, you're not in love. Also, it's cruel to the other person, because they might not feel the same

by pink_nerve · 1 heart

Be alone. It's better than settling.

by pepperjellie · 1 heart

3rd, worse option. Complaining on hush all day instead of picking either.

by cyan_minute · 1 heart

I've done both tyvm. I've also had love so I know what I'm missing. As for complaining it's still better than the 1001 sex posts from everyone.

by azure_addition · 0 hearts

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by MiteAsWell567 · 1 heart

Both suck, but at least with "convenient" you have someone there. Unless it turns to hate.

by CalmStorm25 · 0 hearts

Horrible advice. You're fucking someone else up who might actually have feelings for you. That's disgusting

by MiteAsWell567 · 0 hearts

I speak as someone that no one has feelings for. Thanks for coming to my TED talk.

by CalmStorm25 · 0 hearts

You wouldn't know that. Not everyone speaks up. you'd be surprised at how many people hide feelings.

by NightmareBabyy · 0 hearts

Been with convenience for 8 years. It has its moments, but mostly okay. Just ignore the thoughts about what if. Convenient is safe & that's important.

by azure_addition · 0 hearts

Alone seems to be the better option in my experience. No more heartbreak that way.

by ivory_insurgence · 0 hearts

Conveniences is better, unless they're abusing you, then gtfo

by Flim_mcksly · 0 hearts

Worse is being with someone out of convenience

by Ftmfag36 · 0 hearts

Being alone is 100% better than convenience

by CalmStorm25 · 0 hearts

Both are the worst. Live life, love yourself, enjoy it and the right individual will come along eventually.

by cyan_unique · 0 hearts

But does that apply even to a neurodivergent man who's semi-dependant and struggles with executive dysfunction?

by CalmStorm25 · 0 hearts

Semi dependent because you can't do things alone because of it or... Semi dependent because you don't like doing it alone? there's a difference and other ways to deal with it

by cyan_unique · 0 hearts

Too much stress, boredom, chores, etc burns me out

by Oldergrandpa · 0 hearts

Always alone

by cyan_minute · 0 hearts

Yeah undecided personally, guilty of doing both.

by Oldergrandpa · 0 hearts

Have for the last ten years maybe one day