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The_Siren · 24 hearts · 125 replies

Trying to date or find something serious in this day and age is impossible because all men want is sex...

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by Witchyemostoner · 8 hearts

Women aren’t much better. Too many unhealed bitches out here abusing the fuck out of people instead of getting their narcissistic tendencies figured out. The dating pool in general is trash. I’m speaking as a queer bitch. I’m over it. People are just fucking horrible now and nobody wants an actual genuine relationship they just wanna use people. Like naw I’m fuckin cool off all this shit. I’m perfectly happy being single and sexless. It’s so much less drama

by Blaze_Man · 1 heart

I can feel the pain in this comment. I'm sorry with what you are going through. I wish I could help you feel better. Sadly, I suck at that part.

by Witchyemostoner · 0 hearts

I just don’t feel comfortable dating anymore. Every time I try to open myself up to it all I see is shitty people trying to disguise themselves and I can’t deal with it anymore. I’m at a stage in life where my energy and capacity for bullshit is nonexistent

by Witchyemostoner · 0 hearts

I mean fuck I’m pushing 30 and half the people I talk to my age are more concerned with online drama than real world issues, it’s a popularity contest, or I’m just a punching bag for their egotistical nonsense and unhealed trauma

by Think_again · 4 hearts

Not true. Anytime I date a girl I ask if there’s long term potential and start seeing if our goals and values align. Sex is just a perk of it. I never expect to have sex within the first 3 dates or couple of months.

by NothingToSee · 3 hearts

I wish they’d be upfront about it though. Men lie for no reason and never say things with their chest.

by NedFlandersSimp · 0 hearts

Yeah, that’s part of the reason why I wait for sex. Guys lie and will say anything to get in your pants.

by cncbunnyy · 3 hearts

the men in here mad cause it’s true lmao

by Jimmothy · 3 hearts

Must be all you have to offer.

by Pixie Styx · 2 hearts

I'm just dating a woman instead :)

by Curly Jefferson · 2 hearts

I just want someone to share my life with.

by tan_guilty · 0 hearts

Hi handsome

by 29mNZ · 2 hearts

I want it ALOT. But it’s not all I want. I want the shared silences and random trips to get ice cream. Going to the gym together and talking about something that won’t help our lives but triggered our interest.

by NedFlandersSimp · 2 hearts

Right??? I wanna wait for sex bc that’s what I’m comfortable with plus I want to weed out guys that just want to use me.

by plum_time · 2 hearts

God forbid we like pussy….

by Sawyer09 · 0 hearts

I love sex more than anything

by NedFlandersSimp · 0 hearts

God forbid we see you as the person you really are. An impatient idiot who can’t keep his dick dry for 5 minutes. Pathetic.

by plum_time · 1 heart

Who said 5 minutes? Who said impatient? I said god forbid we like pussy…..Im sure you are a delightful cunt…one that could possibly have purple or pink hair and think really highly of them selves when you probably have trash pussy and think someone has to work for your starfish performance….

by Curly Jefferson · 2 hearts

I've found the same with dating women in 2026. I want someone I can share my life with, not to be added to your polycule.

by JohnCena · 2 hearts

if we can’t have sex, we’re not dating, we’re just friends. It’s not the only thing that matter, but it is important.

by Witchyemostoner · 1 heart

Yall expect sex on the first fuckin date and don’t even try to get to know people first and then wonder why your relationships crash and fail. If all you want is sex there’s sex workers for that. Most people want an actual relationship with actual romance and genuine dates not just some empty horny shit 24/7. Grow up

by UrFavDreammare · 2 hearts

Thats kinda of the whole point of dating. Otherwise you're just friends. Sex isn't a horrible thing and women need to realize that.

by The_Siren · 0 hearts

No there isnt anything wrong with it until thats the only reason he reaches out

by UrFavDreammare · 0 hearts

Yeah thats a problem

by TableTopHero89 · 2 hearts

Yeah I'm sorry but your right the dating world is more of a game then a serious thing anymore and it sucks!

by cyan_modernity · 1 heart

I'm only interested in sex because I'm aromantic, I don't have any interest in romance or relationships, but I get it, it's hard to find anyone

by Backdrop_Return · 1 heart

Do you have any idea what percentage of people are in long relationships? It's definitely not impossible

by Century · 1 heart

Universal thinking is silly

by Llawttt · 1 heart

I mean we want sex at some point. Some are just more patient then others

by white_lambkin · 1 heart

I don't believe that

by grimkittens · 0 hearts

so what’s your experience with men like

by mocha_kitten · 1 heart

Ugh, tell me about it

by Biased bastard · 1 heart

The first attraction for everyone tends to be sexual before its emotional

by grimkittens · 2 hearts

ok biased bastard

by Truffle shuffle · 1 heart

Tell you what’s wrong all the simps have convinced all women they 10 . There is a lot 2-5 out there & very few 10 . Know you place

by green_fuel · 1 heart

what's wrong is the simps and men like you. all of you are driven by the same thing.... desperation. men are so desperate for sexual attention that they've abandoned their humanity

by NedFlandersSimp · 0 hearts

1) this has nothing to do with the post 2) Implying men’s egos aren’t high as well. There’s a lot of men rating themselves awfully high when they’re just 5s. I understand where women’s egos come from, simps and other women. But men? HOW???  Did your grandmas call y’all handsome once and y’all ran with it? Lmfao. Know your place.

by Truffle shuffle · 1 heart

Well I’m a solid 1.5 & know my place. 90% of women are after same 2% of men . The over 6ft 100k year geek god . Why would those guys settle for 2s. Know you place I do

by Queenloren · 1 heart

Low key all women want is sex too

by fudgeynugs · 1 heart

No, we want the other stuff too we just can't think about anything else until we get it out of our system.

by bug🐞 · 1 heart

So date women 🥹