As a goth, I'd rather be seen as weird than be fetishized honestly
Fuck same here take me back to before 2015 when everyone hated this style 馃槱 the posers are more rampant than ever, like every goth girl on the surface rn is clearly doing it all for the fetishization
Yesss!! 100000%
Felt that love being alt but hate the fetishization
Nerd.
Yeah same. The entitlement men feel to my body is ridiculous. I dress to reflect my music taste, not to fulfill a fantasy for some fuckin chud.
I'm a Korean girl. And same. The amount of guys who have approached me speaking (horrible) Japanese is insane.
So cringe
A lot of white supremacist males have a severe Asian fetish so that鈥檚 who you鈥檙e dealing with.
Oh lovely. Creepy AND racist. Just when I thought these men couldn't get any more attractive!
Well real niggas do both
Weirdos unite
Seriously, I'd prefer you find me weird and leave me tf alone.
Ditto. Lump me in with haunted antiques moreso than a quick fetish nut.
yeah the fetishisation is why i gave up on the fashion side of being goth it's gotten so bad over the last few years
Preach!!!
Facts it鈥檚 a lifestyle n aesthetic not a fetish
Lol
As an autistic person I feel the same way
I loveeee being weird honestly
<_< freaking weirdos in black, I bet you lick feet and eat bat wings
Please don't take me seriously
honestly, same. the fetishization of our community only makes the spaces less safe for the minors who just wanna have fun :/
No man with options will fetishize you
This is so real, it鈥檚 why I don鈥檛 dress alt
You are weird
Thank you so much!
So like you want to dress like Wednesday Adams, in a make believe culture, but you don't want anyone to notice. Got it.
Im fine with being noticed. Being reduced to a trendy sex stereotype is what I don't like.
So as long as people see you as a person and not just a fashion statement?
Same
imagine thinking you can control people's fetishes
Imagine thinking it's okay to push your fetishes on to others who want no part in it
Not pushing anything onto you.
You seem to really want OP to be okay with being fetishized against their wishes from you previous comment. Just pointing out how you come across
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Now it's black goths trying to be white- the new liberal hipster. They stole gas culture take jt back
Same