BigandhEDSGirl · 1 heart · 7 replies

Hey uh, instead of cheating when your spouse isn't interested in sex, maybe try asking if they feel well or not. Lower sex drive is a common symptom for a lot of things.

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by Anansi · 0 hearts

You locked them into a commitment then withhold something they need what do you expect

by BigandhEDSGirl · 0 hearts

The point is to love them enough to show concern when something unusual in behavior happens.

by Cinci_funtimes2 · 1 heart

What if you have asked and expressed concern. Then what if they still withhold? Sometimes a good old hj is all that is needed. That doesn’t take a sex drive to do.

by BigandhEDSGirl · 1 heart

Yes, it does. It does take a sex drive to give sex acts of any kind. I personally get nauseated at the idea of sex acts unless I am interested in said sex in general. And if that is the case, just leave; why torture someone with cheating?