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Big D SLC · 6 hearts · 37 replies

Interesting observation... I lose nearly 200 lbs of weight... and people start reacting more kindly to me. Even those who treated me like shit before change.... People are so fucking biased. Hurts.

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by PepeSilvia9 · 2 hearts

Fat people treat themselves like shit. Why would you expect anyone else to treat you differently?

by Big D SLC · 0 hearts

Because it's a pretty shitty thing to do to treat someone like shit?

by PepeSilvia9 · 0 hearts

If you treat yourself like shit and don't care enough to keep yourself in decent shape, why would anyone else be concerned about you? You avoided the key part of the question

by Witchyemostoner · 1 heart

Imagine saying something so intellectually bankrupt and then acting like you’re spitting facts😂

by draculaura 🦇 · 2 hearts

this isn’t a new revelation lool. everyone knows pretty privilege has always been around

by Big D SLC · 1 heart

Fair enough... just sucks that humanity acts like this.

by BunnyLady · 1 heart

It's so sad

by Big D SLC · 0 hearts

Agreed.

by Kojak · 1 heart

It's absolutely a thing. Same when you're rich and have a ton going for you. The moment you're down though they're gone Humanity is a superficial game but we can play to win

by Big D SLC · 0 hearts

Is it worth trying to satisfy the fickleness of humanity?

by Curly Jefferson · 0 hearts

Preach. I used to be skinny and hot, then gain a bunch of weight because of a myriad of factors, and it was crazy the difference in how people treat you. It's like you're not even there when you're fat. I've been working out and eating healthy and am now large and sexy, but I'm still kinda fat, and I notice the difference.

by Big D SLC · 0 hearts

I'm sorry you experienced that.

by Curly Jefferson · 0 hearts

Eh, it's part of life. I get it, too, so there were never hard feelings.

by Witchyemostoner · 0 hearts

I was treated like shit when I was skinny too🤷🏼‍♀️my shoulders were too broad for a female, I was too athletic, too skinny, and then I hit puberty and it was “if you gain weight I’m gonna break up with you” and started developing curves and then got put on meds that made me fat. Moral of the story is people hate everybody regardless of size. If you don’t act neurotypical and don’t fit the European beauty standard you’re a disgusting piece of shit in society’s eyes and they can all choke on that shit

by Big D SLC · 1 heart

Sorry you had to deal with that. I've been fighting obesity for over 30 years and almost won.. people are fickle and judgmental.

by Witchyemostoner · 0 hearts

People don’t realize that weight isn’t purely about food. Genetics, chronic illness, medications, there’s so many other factors outside of food and exercise and there’s also a natural weight your body will hover around. For me it’s in the 220s-230s and it’s hard for me to get below that point when I was trying. I struggled with an eating disorder from the time I was in high school and one of the worst years for it was like 2024. I’ve finally been in recovery for about a year now but it’s just not worth it to torture yourself and make yourself sick trying to lose the weight so people will accept you more cuz those people are only there for superficial reasons

by Big D SLC · 0 hearts

It's very difficult. I understand. Thanks to mounjaro i was able to get from 440 to 260 in 7 years. Trying to get to 220.

by Kojak · 0 hearts

If it puts you in a better position to find happiness and better the world of those who share your deeper values then perhaps yes

by FitBoxer · 0 hearts

Quit whining skinny

by ToxelToxic · 0 hearts

I mean fat people are disgusting 🤷🏻‍♀️ no one wants to be nice to someone whos literally vile to look at

by Big D SLC · 0 hearts

You seem to have a tendency to dehumanize people because they're different.. You'd think as a more civilized society in the 21st century, mankind would learn that peace is more important than hostility. You've got a lot of growing up to do.

by ToxelToxic · 0 hearts

Fat people are a waste of resources and a drain on the medical system. Theyre disgusting and take up to much space and generally they smell disgusting because they cant clean themselves properly

by Big D SLC · 0 hearts

Only fat people? So you're not a waste of resources? We live in a time and day where losing weight has never been easier thanks to GLP-1 drugs. The only thing that stops most people who need that are financial. Insurance won't cover it, costs too much. You hold that against fat people? Wow, I smell the stank of your cruel personality, and I really don't like it. Do better.

by fly_girl_ · 0 hearts

I just hate fat people because they are disgusting to look at

by Big D SLC · 0 hearts

Speaks about your character. Probably an 8/10 looks with a lower scored personality. Fat human is still human.

by fly_girl_ · 0 hearts

Lol you're here "scoring" people like they are hogs at a state fair and then criticizing me for dehumanizing people? You should probably look in a mirror

by Big D SLC · 0 hearts

You dehumanized humans first, I'm only talking to your level so you can understand. I thought I was doing you a courtesy here. I already know I'm at best 5/10 in looks.. personality score differs depending on the person and how well they know me. I'm probably a 0/10 to you because you don't even know me. Don't really care anymore. Do better. Have a nice life.