Ma’am, you put the contradiction in the same sentence... 😂
Explain
If women resenting traditional expectations doesn’t make women selfish, why does men resenting expectations make men selfish? 🧐 If resenting an expectation makes men selfish, then women resenting expectations makes women selfish. Same logic. 🤔 If your problem is gendered expectations, fine. That’s fair. But then your problem is the expectations, not men.
I suppose the difference is that men put the pressure on themselves and then bitch about the pressure that they put on themselves. But that's just my 2 cents.
A woman demeaning men on an app of septum-ring wearing, blue-haired landwhales who have more opinions than common sense? Say it ain't so, Sally!
Statistically pretty sure there’s a fuck ton more wrinkly old white right wing men on here
That's Facebook.
It’s pretty much anywhere they can hide behind their anonymity and be disgusting
Watch all the rational gender behaving so normally and rationally in these comments. Definitely not proving your point at all. Such alpha.
Why are you a whore? Stop being a whore and you'd have some value.
One could argue that my whoring adds value. You should try it
He would if he could.
lol What do women sacrifice?
Everything? Freedom? Independence? Control? Time?
I dont see y'all sacrificing any of that
Then you’re not looking
Please dont try to gaslight me lady
There’s no incentive to be a provider for a woman. Feminists said y’all don’t need men for that. Don’t cry that men are giving you what women asked for.
Incentive: so we can leave or aren’t left high and dry when y’all leave. What did we ask for? To be cared for? To be considered?
I think you misunderstand what an incentive is. The fact that 60% of marriage ends in divorce and 80% are initiated by the wife who usually is the one collecting alimony and child support is why providing for a woman and getting married makes no sense. I think deterrent is what you meant. 😂
I've yet to meet a woman raised to sacrifice. Maybe 60 years ago. But the 18-30yos of today are incredibly entitled and selfish. I'm not saying men aren't, but women are NOT this selfless, virtuous class.
True
You've been in control for literally thousands of years. It's not hard to see why people assume your problems are your fault? They didn't spawn from the ether. They were imposed on you by other dudes. If I willingly put my hand on a hot stove I don't expect sympathy for getting burned.
Nothing pisses a woman off quite like her own taste in men disappointing her.
Trust me. We don't have to want these men to see the problems with them. They broadcast their red flags to the world. And then whine that men are becoming increasingly lonely. It's not because women have been scorned by men, bud. It's because we recognize a fucking sunk cost fallacy when we see one.
Then why are you so consumed by them? 💀 If every man you look at is a red flag, at some point I gotta wonder if the whole village is red or if it’s your glasses. 😂
You just described women...as usual, every accusation is a confession
"No you!" Brilliant argument there, Dan.
When the shoe fits..."no you" is a valid argument when it's accurate. I see it constantly. Women talk about how men are awful for X reason, and then proceed to describe their own consistent behavior.
Or, hear me out here because this is a radical concept. Both men and women are part of the same species. So something that is true for a man Can also be true for a woman We are not monoliths where women are all Type B and men are all Type A. We are the same species, with similar proclivities on both sides and no one holds the monopoly on being shitty. 🤯
Yes! I was just saying the same thing!
Big statement to build a whole worldview on ‘almost always.’ Selfishness isn’t gendered, it’s just people. Plenty of men sacrifice constantly (military families, single dads, guys working themselves into the ground for their kids), and plenty of women choose themselves too. Painting half the population with one brush usually says more about who you’ve dated than about men in general lmfaoooooo
Both men and women are selfish.
Poor you. You missed the part about the women who make us that way.
Yes girl yesssss
Yup 100%. You learn this when you marry a man. His actions always speak louder than his words. He's very selfish and entitled.
Wow, you actually just described my wife perfectly! You got it absolutely backwards!
Moment of silence for the many women vets who sacrificed their lives.
Again, not going to look but I would bet my house this woman is single and in her 30s
Its actually the other way around lol
True! My brother only wants sex with me
Idk what men you've met but seems to me you attract the worst. Most men i know would love to provide, most men I know sacrifice their time, the money, their freedom, their lives to provide for their families. My father slaves away in multiple jobs to make ends meet and put food on the table so we didn't have to worry. Not to mention the thousands of soldiers that fight and died for your right to say whatever you please. Men are raised to suck it up and"be a man" we aren't allowed to be emotional and from what I've seen when we are the same women that wanted us to open up use that against us when it benefits them out to bring us down. You have no idea what it's like to be a man.
Thts not how it is everytime
If that's the case, I think somewhere along the line my values flipped gender
