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silver_treatment · 1 heart · 22 replies

Anybody ever notice how it’s only ever attractive men who try to give advice on how to meet & approach women? It’s a lot easier to be confident when women are already attracted to you, js

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by Tommy Shelby · 0 hearts

There's an important phrase we use here. I think it's time you all learned it. "Act as if." You know what that means?

by silver_treatment · 0 hearts

Act as if what?

by green_moose · 0 hearts

He's just an incel crying about how he doesn't deserve to be such a lonely loser

by Hevenonfire · 0 hearts

As someone who was a fat 5/10 for a long time, it’s a you issue. Be friendly. Be funny. Be kind. I had no issues finding partners and I was certainly not attractive nor was I confident. I just didn’t let that get in my way of treating women like a friend first

by silver_treatment · 0 hearts

I always treat people with respect until they give me a reason not to. Doesn’t matter, if you’re unattractive, women in this generation will not even give you 5 minutes of their time no matter how friendly and respectful you are. And I’m saying that from experience

by Hevenonfire · 0 hearts

And I’m saying from experience they will lol might just need to try something different my guy

by silver_treatment · 0 hearts

I mean I’ve approached over 20 women in life, I can genuinely only remember 1 time out of that 20 where the woman gave me a shot to actually have a conversation with her. And I’ve tried different openers, but I always try my best to keep it straightforward and not weird or creepy. Something as simple as “hey I like your outfit” or “you have a really good vibe” just to give 2 examples

by green_moose · 0 hearts

You sound so pathetic

by silver_treatment · 0 hearts

I’m not wrong though. The whole “just be confident” thing only applies to men who are physically attractive. Those of us that aren’t attractive, have to do a lot more just to get noticed or for a woman to engage in conversation with us for 5 minutes

by green_moose · 0 hearts

Keep whining and blaming everyone else for why you're so lonely 🙄

by silver_treatment · 0 hearts

You don’t have to agree with what I say, but disagreeing doesn’t change the facts