If someone cheats WITH you, is it unreasonable to ever trust them not to cheat ON you?
Once a cheater always a cheater
I don't know if I agree with that. I think somebody can cheat when they're younger and learn from a lesson and later on in other relationships. Realize that they don't want to do what they did when they were younger
I can respect that, just for me personally if you've cheated I would never be able to think that you wouldn't cheat on me
When I was younger, I cheated on my first wife many times because I traveled for 85% of the time for about 8 years. Not saying that's an excuse. I was in the wrong completely. There was a part in the beginning of our relationship where she was suspected of cheating but I never had proof. I think when I cheated on her in that marriage I felt like I was getting back at her. Anyways all that shit came back and bit me in the ass and I ended up telling her that I had been cheating and she left me and my relationship folded and I got divorced. What I learned from that relationship is that I don't want to cheat. I can throw on a porno and beat my dick in 20 minutes and be done with that urge and not have to deal with the guilt