i swear its like my husband cant clean without being told step by step what to do 🙄
He can. He's being willfully incompetent so that you stop asking him to do it.
unfortunately for him he will always have to clean, im not his maid.
Good! He's a fully capable adult
weaponized incompetence
Yes! Omg! My ex would ask me what needs to be cleaned as he stares at the sink full of dishes, his clothes on the floor in every room, trash that could be taken to the dumpster, etc. Like dude look the fuck around, and pick one! Ugghhhh!!
exactly you live here too and see what i see if not lets go get you a thicker pair of glassses
Weak. I'm a guy and I prefer cleaning my fair share. My wife isn't my mom.
congratulations
You made the post dumbass, sorry you have a child as a husband
lmao i was being serious but pop off king
That’s how mine is. He says what do you want me to do. I want you to open your eyes and read the room.
exactly this! they act so helpless at home but are able to do their jobs with no issues? please
I don't get my allowance if I don't finish my chores perfectly
Do you help him with the car ??? Change the oil ??
thats what the mechanic is for
How clean is what the maid's for
you must be willing to pay for one for us then
Weaponised incompetence
Thank God mines not like this
congratulations
I think he’s being purposely I competent so that you just end up doing it
that doesnt work, i still make him do it
If he's neurodivergent then a step-by-step guide is actually helpful
understandable, no official diagnosis but claims to be.
And then they wonder why we dont care or never listen 🤦
Malicious compliance. Hes doing it on purpose. Stop telling him and just take what he does as is. Dont fix it. Just say thanks hunny and good job. He'll get tried of you not closing up his messes
thats exactly what i do
Good luck
thanks next ill call his mom to straighten him out lol
Fuck another man. He will shape up
stfu
So listen tj thd song incompadance
Lol that's what I'm talking about
Thank baby Jesus my girl is a good girl and understands her role without questioning
yikes
Who makes more money you or him ..?
whys that matter?
If the man's bringing home the money, then the woman of the house must be cleaning the house
if the man lives there he can clean too
Did you marry a child??
ew fuck no
Why’s he act like one then
idk let me go ask
You’re not his mother
really? i thought i was lol
Most men can't do anything without being told in baby steps. This is not news.
never claimed it was
He likely has ADHD. Get him medicated
he can get himself medicated
Right, don’t support him. Just bitch about it on here
yeah exactly, you can lead a horse to water but you cant make them drink.
yuck!
Some boys never grow up mentally
He does that on purpose
that sucks for him
Sucks for you both. And I relate cuz mine doesn't contribute to the housework.
doesnt suck for me actually, i leave it until he does it