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Sharpness V · 3 hearts · 34 replies

I want a girlfriend/wife more than anything. All I need is a chance and I won’t give up but I’m so tired of every approach being met with “I have a boyfriend” and getting ghosted on dating apps.

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by LuvYerMoneyNotU · 3 hearts

Then stop approaching taken women, you donut. 🫵🤣

by GoldenGal · 1 heart

Then improve yourself, you say you want a chance while doing the same thing and getting the same response

by ivory_bidder · 1 heart

This creepy behavior is exactly why you'll die a virgin.

by Sharpness V · 0 hearts

Nothing creepy about saying I want a partner.

by ivory_bidder · 0 hearts

That's not what you said though. We can see the words in your post, dumbass.

by Sharpness V · 0 hearts

I said nothing creepy in my post. I’m not a dumbass either, bitch.

by yellow_vibrissae · 1 heart

Happiness doesn't come from another person. Focus on yourself and you will meet someone eventually.

by BookishGirlie · 0 hearts

Same with the guys, but they either can't wait for anything sexual or they just ghost cause they find someone easier

by 420flower · 0 hearts

Same but with guys or it's all sexual

by Anonnymously · 0 hearts

My love can be bought 😉get me a lab pup and we'll talk

by Dikgozinya · 0 hearts

Stop looking. When you're out, laugh and carry on, have a good time with them, and leave them where you found them. Let one of them start asking about you. Don't worry, they will. Just be yourself and be patient. It will come.

by Little_Mis · 0 hearts

This is actually good advice.

by Goth-moth · 0 hearts

Have you considered meeting women as people and not just as potential gfs?

by El Chud Diablo · 0 hearts

This male entitlement makes me sick. You deserve to be alone.

by Sharpness V · 0 hearts

Fuck you, seriously. What part of that makes me sound entitled? Desiring a partner is not the same as saying I feel like I’m owed one, I’m just saying I want one. Racist, sexist, horrible attitude. Very good rage bait though you got me.

by RizmWithTheTizm · 0 hearts

Well, I'm such of being abused and used and treated badly. I'm the most loyal and unconditional person and yet he was hurting me and made me feel guilty for wanting help.

by Little_Mis · 1 heart

Im so sorry you had to live through that i hope your ol now

by an_apparition · 0 hearts

desperation isn't good either, it will either scare people off or attract extremely insecure, low-boundary, narcissistic, and/or controlling people. I had a work buddy try extremely hard at being my personal friend despite telling him I wasn't interested in that kind of friendship several times. he would have been very easy to manipulate and take advantage of and that was extremely disturbing to me. I did not want that much emotional power over someone, even if they are begging for it

by TwistedSexual · 0 hearts

The best girlfriends I've ever had and the best quality women I've been with.. Always. Everytime. Came when I truthfully was not looking at all

by ivory_eyelid · 0 hearts

This. Chance meetings.

by Notyoursunshine · 0 hearts

Hope you find her eventually- it’s definitely a tough world out there.

by vamppire · 0 hearts

the right person will come at the right time

by pink_rugby · 0 hearts

Me too me too 🫂

by BunnyLady · 0 hearts

Maybe try volunteering or going to meet ups related to your hobbies? The apps are hell

by Bigbrowngirl17 · 0 hearts

Im looking for future husband 😆

by ChivalrousJack · 0 hearts

Stop being desperate. That'll help a lot.

by Thatxbaldxguy · 0 hearts

I quit trying for a long time because it was made clear that women just don't want me for whatever reason. I've been trying to put myself back out there but it's still hard af

by LilHopz · 0 hearts

Stop trying so hard. You reek of desperation, and it’s killing your chances. Treat every woman like she isn't an option until she makes herself one. Let them drop the handkerchief, as it should be. Drop the apps and focus on yourself. Get comfortable in your own skin, do what you love, and build real security. The right woman shows up when you stop chasing and start moving like it's already yours. Stop pretending just to win affection. Genuine affection is a priceless resource, and it costs you nothing to get except actually being yourself.

by Just_Stoopid · 0 hearts

I feel it, or at least i did. Probably still do, I got off all the apps though and quit asking a couple years ago cause it was always the same story everytime. Ive decided to focus on my career and hobbies and if someone chooses me then so be it if not then ill just be a cool ass old dude with cool shit and a job that pays.

by Nightvision · 0 hearts

What dating apps are you using?

by Sharpness V · 0 hearts

Hinge, Tinder, Bumble, Duet, Rivet, Hunch, Cerca, and Coffee Meets Bagel