I'm cute enough to be lusted after but not pretty enough to be loved, and this is why I hate my life. I just want to be loved, is that so wrong to ask for?
Men aren’t really capable of love so just focus on self love
I do love myself but I do be lonely at times
Mind if I see a pic and let me judge
You'd have to message for a pic
U deserve love
I'm not sure I do since I never have been besides by myself
Samesies let's be besties
Definitely down to be besties
I use to think that too but I know it’s my own issues. I am cynical with very firm boundaries so sex 1-2 with me and they say good riddance.!
I don't even have sex with anyone, they leave me for someone easier to get into bed with
Well, that has happened to me too over time
I'm sorry to hear that
Plenty of ugly girls have boyfriends, it must be ur personality
My personality is I'm kind and caring to a fault. I read and write a lot as well as game. Not sure what could be wrong about my personality
Look a little deeper, try to see how you behave around men, you might have flaws that are putting them off
I'm always kind and considerate to everyone, maybe just a bit shy but that's it
You’ll meet the right person eventually. Just focus on loving yourself until then
I do love myself just not sure I'm ever gonna find someone who will
Most men don't love. They only lust after women. It has nothing to do with you
Don't I know, but it sucks for those actually looking to try and get into a relationship
I feel this
I just want to be loved too. But I know I’m going to have to get there by myself. Women only want men at the finish line, they don’t want you while you’re still figuring it out.
I feel like everyone is probably a work in progress so this can't be true
People fall in love for personality, not looks
That's how I am, but I'm apparently too "boring" for people cause they never take the chance to fully get to know me
Gotta find the right person
I think that has more to do with your self pity than how you look
I don't pity myself, just staying things I've legit been told by people.
If you are cute enough to be lusted, you can easily be loved. Love is not really based on how you look. And if you are going to accept those reasons and repeat it, it is self pity. It is a huge turn off for me. There could be small things in you that you can fix that would make you more interesting
Looks are only skin deep, have to look deeper than that.
I mean I'm also apparently "boring" and I'm not as "easy" as other women are to get into bed with since I'm demisexual
Well, just because they don't have the skill to pull, doesn't equate to your value. But seriously how does one derive boring from a demi.... Make it make sense.
I have agoraphobia, I'm a bookworm who writes a lot and games a bit too. But most want someone who wants to go out all the time
I kind of feel that. I’m pretty enough but I can’t drive, I only work 30 hours a week, I live with my mother, and I have bipolar disorder. A lot of people think they’re too good for me. And I’m like a 7.5. Even some average guys turn their noses up at me. Never for looks, always for the reasons above. I’m good enough for a quick fuck, never for a relationship. It’s quite sad.
I'm sorry to hear that and I get that too much. Most nowadays just want a quick fuck and not an actual relationship. I have agoraphobia, and I'm demisexual so I can't even have quick fucks, and never had one. I just get guys leading me on, sexulaizing me, and then leaving me for someone "easier" as soon as I catch feelings
Yeah same. I get ghosted so often. One guy ghosted me after four successful dates. I called him a spineless piece of work.
I don't even ever get dates, guys around me are only looking to hookup and I shut that crap down from the beginning
I’m sure you’re all those things.
Maybe quit focusing solely on appearances and you might find something...
It's others that care about appearances, all I care about is personality. The last guy I fell for I didn't even know what he looked like at all and still don't before he told me how he felt for me was just a last crush and that was it. After leading me on for over a month
Screw him, he's an ass. you not bothered by appearance is great and all, but what I meant was to take a look at yourself internally.
I know how I am internally. That's part of the reason I'm gonna end up alone forever. I can't be rushed into anything sexual and no one really wants to wait thanks to hookup culture
Love has nothing to do with aesthetic...
Aesthetic? What does this have to do with the way I look?
Omg you didnt just type that🤣
I don't have an aesthetic so I don't understand exactly. Like the clothes I wear aren't part of any and no one I know wears one either
Wtf kind of logic is that? Ever think maybe people can't love you because you don't even love yourself enough for people to want to be around you? You sound exhausting AF.
I do love myself but legit the only people who ever message me lead me on and sexualize me and then leave me for someone "easier" not exhausting I'm actually quite boring
I’m not sure what this means, I figured it would be the opposite for ladies lol
It's not sadly, not even close. All I ever get is guys wanting to hook up when I'm looking for a deep and meaningful relationship, yet I can't find one
You are not alone in these feelings.
I'm sorry to hear that
I totally can relate
I'm sorry that you relate, no one should have to feel this way
Yes
It shouldn't be, everyone deserves to be loved
Your post just makes no sense
Besides it's usually just really fat ppl who have difficulty finding a partner
Your imperfections are perfect to someone dont forget that
I wish they were but I don't think they are
Trust me yo there are a few people in this world that are perfect. You have to decide if u are going g to wait for them or go find them.
I've been actively looking for years and only gave up pretty much the last two years cause I've been single for almost 8 years now. I'm tired of getting led on and left for someone "easier"
I felt this way in high school
I felt this way for the past few years honestly.
I don't have Any sympathy for bitches in America. Most of you deserve to feel exactly this
Well I don't since I've never done anything wrong to anyone unlike other women I know that I choose not to even talk to
If you say so, I don't buy it.
Well you don't me so you can't know what I have or haven't done