Am I a weirdo for only wanting to participate in kinky dirty stuff with somebody who loves me? Otherwise I just feel used and objectified in a way that I do not like
That's not weird, that's normal. The opposite is weird and damaged, usually trauma based.
Weird, yes. Damaged with trauma might be a stretch though...
That's how it should be. It's a shame this isn't the norm
no, totally normal
Not weird at all. I feel the same way
No cuz same
No that makes you sane
no, that’s perfectly normal
No, after all I only give it to my fiancé and that’s fine
My bf and gfs freely use me but they’d give up their lives for me
So you feel loved by them.... Being free use for your partner is not the same as being used by somebody who doesn't give a crap about you
Yes
I'm inclined to think that you're the weirdo
Looks like it takes one to know one right?
Nothing wrong with that
Not weird at all. I only want to be kinky with someone I wholly trust
Same loo
Having boundaries doesn’t make you weird
Like how dirty?
Not very.. Im basically vanilla but I am not adverse to sprinkles or other toppings
Feeling used feels good though 🤷🏻♀️
Not for me.. not at all... Not even a little