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Katseye · 5 hearts · 23 replies

What answer are people actually looking for when they ask “what do you bring to the table?” A whole bunch of dudes say they can hire someone but doesn’t that also work vice versa? What does anybody bring to the table?

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by ⋅˚₊‧ ଳೃ࿔ · 3 hearts

Just ignore. Normal people looking for normal relationships don’t say things like that.

by CookiesNCream · 2 hearts

I mean I know what I bring to the table but I’m not taking anyone who asks that seriously lol

by NothingToSee · 2 hearts

Men who ask women that are trash

by Rhetorical · 2 hearts

The people I have met irl who ask this question have been horrible people who think they are better than others.

by ForFoxSake · 2 hearts

"I've got a house, a job, and a car. What do you bring besides an interrogation?"

by 2A lefty scum · 1 heart

I make really great pies and soups

by Fatautisticgirl · 1 heart

Lipgloss and extra fat, yw

by Backdrop_Return · 1 heart

Only single people say this shit. People in relationships worry about what they are bringing to the table themselves

by Nu2u2 · 0 hearts

This

by Pixie Styx · 1 heart

It's a weird question, like if you're interested in someone you should have an idea of what they'd add to your life. I guess it makes more sense if you're meeting from an app or something and don't have that basis?

by RandomDirtbag · 1 heart

If you can do it better for less, then that's valuable. I think most of the time when men say it, it's not a genuine question. It's more used to backhanded call you worthless. Shithead tactics.

by Thatonesmoker · 1 heart

Or maybe if you’re gonna be with someone you should be with them because you care for them and not what they bring to the table, you’re not a corporation

by Katseye · 1 heart

Exactly

by AF1278 · 0 hearts

Women think they are the table and they dont ever have to contribute anything to relationships and theyre entitled to the world.

by Katseye · 0 hearts

If that’s what you believe, live it. The rest of us will live in the real world.

by Meow69 · 0 hearts

Idc ill just say cake 🎂

by Hoggins · 0 hearts

Its because based on what women usually bring to the table, we can hire someone to fill those roles. Women are going to have a much harder time hiring one man to be your lover, your maid, your gardener, your baby sitter, your therapist, your friend, your confidant...y'all gunna pay a man to pay your bills?

by Katseye · 0 hearts

So…the same thing men can pay for. So it has not point, noted.

by Hoggins · 0 hearts

Ur an illiterate peice of shit

by Katseye · 0 hearts

You’re so emotional, calm down sweetie

by fuchsia_immigrant · 0 hearts

I think a lot of it is to test where you cover weaknesses in them or offer a benefit to their lives. I'm getting better with financial responsibility, but still am not the best. Id like a partner who is financially responsible or at least isn't irresponsible, to help me continue to grow. Also, I'm not into party girls, not because there's anything wrong with them, but because I'm more of a homebody/hiker. What you bring to the table needs to add value to their life, not detract from it.

by Short_skirts · 0 hearts

For me, I’m basically just asking what separates you from everyone else wanting to hit.