That's your resume. Women aren't attracted to resumes. Just be kind, fun, and easy-going. When they want to see what's on the resume, they'll look in their own discreet way, and you'll pass that test without even knowing you did.
I am kind, fun, and easy-going, as well as patient and understanding, and all it does is get me friend-zoned 🤷♂️
The friendzone only exists to men who view relationships as transactional. Women don't owe you a relationship. That's probably why women don't want you in the first place. Because you don't value friendship and you think you should be awarded a relationship based on doing the bare minimum. You need to change your mindset.
Where did I say that I view relationships as transactional? I never said anyone owes me a relationship, and my best friends are women. If you knew me you’d understand that I don’t do the bare minimum for anyone, in any relationship I’m in whether it’s platonic or romantic.
Also list what you’re looking for.
Basically the same in return
Well decent looking is subjective….
That is very true, and I’m honestly not too concerned with looks
So what's wrong with you then?
Well finding a life partner makes sense if its difficult
Confidence is sexy. Just pick someone, tell them you want them and maybe try to kiss them. If they don't let you, at least you can say you tried. As a woman, I think, that is a sexy way to start something. Even if it is just turns out to be sex. And don't let what people say damage what you see in someone. People don't like other people to be happy.
Please don't tell men to randomly try and kiss people. That's not going to end well
It is hard out there but if you keep at it you will find someone. I've got most of what you mentioned other than looks but I think i finally found my future wife. It just takes a lot of time sometimes and a little luck.
Sometimes it's harder for some people to get women, meanwhile I'm in an open marriage, have a gf and a side chick 🤷
No advice but good luck 🍀
Just give up they don't give a fuck about you yet and they won't
It's this fucking City bro, I swear. I can go anywhere else, Calgary, Red Deer, Grande Prairie the list goes on, and my luck with women drastically changes. Half the time women approach me anywhere else, and if they don't at least they're interested enough to try and have a conversation. It's freaking weird the difference.
I’m curious — since you’re sober, I’d love to understand what draws you to Hush and what benefits or value the site brings into your life. I’ve noticed that many people appear to use it for things like casual encounters, exhibitionism, or buying and selling substances and other items. When I see that, I sometimes feel uncertain and wonder how those aspects fit for you. I’d genuinely appreciate hearing about your experience and reasons for being there. I also feel that spending time in spaces with that kind of energy might sometimes make it more challenging for deeper, more aligned connections to come into our lives. That’s simply a perspective that came to mind for me, and I wanted to share it openly. You certainly don’t have to respond publicly if you’d rather not — I hope you’ll consider it in whatever way feels right for you.
The right one always comes along when you least expect them to, the universe works in funny ways
Just live your life bro. Put yourself out there and don’t focus all of your energy on finding a relationship. It’ll happen
