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Cyan magenta y · 31 hearts · 64 replies

"Not all men" is technically true but functionally irrelevant. It prioritizes a man's need to be recognized as innocent over women's attempt to describe a systemic problem.

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by BrotherLem · 5 hearts

Not all rattlesnakes bite people. Why are you being careful around rattlesnakes?

by Ophiuchus · 3 hearts

Its irrelevant to their traumatized bodies, yes. It doesn't matter how many are good, you cant erase trauma. You cant magically make it go away. So until that day comes, we have 2 options: we either stand up and fight with the women so that the systematic problems dont exist. Or you sit down and get used to it while we fight for the real safety of women and, cant believe this ones even up for debate, children of all genders. So that we dont allow this unsafe society to continue, and we can stop having this conversation. If you dont like the results, why aren't you trying to fix the problem instead of whining bout it?

by Skaldic · 3 hearts

Just use better language. That's it. If you've got a problem with the patriarchy, talk about the patriarchy. If you've got a problem with your ex, complain about your ex. If men on dating apps are pissing you off, say, "The men I'm talking to on these dating apps are pissing me off". Broad gendered aggression escalates conflict, and minimizes productive conversation.

by ☀️🔆☀️🔆☀️🔆 · 1 heart

Stop using your insecurity. If it implies to you take it personal , which it clearly does

by Skaldic · 2 hearts

I'm not really concerned about it personally. It's a cause and effect analysis, that's all. The solution to men and women hating each other is not to useful hateful generalizations to describe each other. It's hard to mend fences is your strategy involves setting them on fire. 😋

by ☀️🔆☀️🔆☀️🔆 · 0 hearts

Not at all because you need to be insecure to feel threatend about a victim speaking up. That is what your analysis shows. Nothing is said on fire. Perhaps stop acting like people are generalising all the time when they say an indentity marker that is as common among yourself in the clouds. That you act amused by this clearly shows you are in your own self made heaven

by Ryan Halls · 3 hearts

This is the most beta shit I've seen

by Cyan magenta y · 3 hearts

This is the most incel response here yet

by Ryan Halls · 0 hearts

Yeah you're an incel

by Cyan magenta y · 1 heart

Or pick me girl, assuming you're not lieing on you profile, but never known a woman to use beta... Sooo... I think you're a dude

by margin_notes · 2 hearts

oh you’ll have made some of the men here real insecure with this one. they don’t understand systems like that

by ParrotLady🦜 · 2 hearts

Best response I’ve seen so far Thank you

by The Black Susie · 2 hearts

It’s really sad that’s all they have to say. No empathy and sympathy, just some off handed remark that they maybe different.

by yellow_vibrissae · 2 hearts

Not all men but it's always A MAN

by CornusKousa · 2 hearts

Even my own father isnt immune from this. Its really all of them. Theyre so selfish.

by LastResortt · 2 hearts

It makes me laugh all the men crapping on this post (who likely aren't getting any) and the author is probably getting it in right now. Like- you can't help some people.

by Cyan magenta y · 0 hearts

You really can't....

by The Destroyer · 2 hearts

Wtf are you on about

by Cyan magenta y · 0 hearts

Found the incel

by Multi pass · 1 heart

The people telling on themselves in the comments are wild

by Cyan magenta y · 1 heart

Did this make the hot page or something? The amount of people on here who just don't get it. Are unsurprising, but disappointing

by Hurricane_97 · 1 heart

Is she pegging you tonight?

by GuyInTennessee · 1 heart

Can most women online do anything beyond constant whining because a few men they had probably decided to be around during their lives had ended up treating them poorly?

by Jellyskelly · 0 hearts

Who said it was a few?

by PinkDragon🩷 · 1 heart

This! 👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽

by Thorn🌹 · 1 heart

Stfu

by Cyan magenta y · 0 hearts

Found the cuck

by Thorn🌹 · 0 hearts

Says the pick me boy selling out his gender for cool points

by Cyan magenta y · 0 hearts

Awe.... Sounds like I hit a nerve.... Are you an incel or only get pussy through assault?

by Anonymous1415 · 1 heart

No it's true, it's an affirmation against bigotry because if you think men are the problem, you're judging wholly half of the population based on conditions of their birth, just as bad as misogynists

by peachypop · 0 hearts

If men aren't the problem then can they stop being responsible for the vast majority of the world's violence and sexual assault? Because until that happens, men are statistically the problem.

by Anonymous1415 · 0 hearts

That's like trying to talk about statistics as they relate to race, both just bigoted

by JonesJack · 0 hearts

Every single person who chooses to waste their time engaging in these online debates is retarded.

by Grimm13 · 1 heart

Look at the perfect little cuck here

by Cyan magenta y · 2 hearts

Wow so original, thank you for the insightful response, I bet women love you 😂

by Harry Seldon · 0 hearts

Stop whining

by Fanfan_la_Rose · 0 hearts

I know that made sense to you, but only to you. We suffered.

by Backdrop_Return · 0 hearts

The issue is, like so many things, what started off as a well meaning and important call out #Notallmen has changed over time after being repeated to people that have no idea what they are talking about over the internet for years. When a woman describes a real world experience and it's written off as "well not all men behave that way, I don't see why it's a me problem" that is clearly an issue that needs to be addressed but now a lot of the time a man says "not all men" it's in direct response you someone calling out men as a gender. Any sentence that beings "Men are, Men do, Men Say, Men think" isn't calling out a systemic issue. And people are going to defend their gender. In FACT people should be defending EVERYONES gender. Men should be sticking up for women against the rise in incel culture and women should be defending men from the rot that's currently corrupting feminism from the inside out.

by DivinelySaved · 0 hearts

You are a blessing on earth to understand this so well. I wish more could understand that most women are man haters, they are just traumatised by the men who chose to do wrong.

by NP here · 0 hearts

Both sexes do it. Cuz when a guy complains about a woman on here he gets messages that say not all women