if a guy goes quiet for a day or two, is he making a decision about the connection or simply ghosting?
Who cares? Plenty of dick out there, find someone who fcks ur pussy hard not your heart
I don't think textrelationships are healthy aka playing out your entire relationship over text/phone. If you aren't making plans to meet up for a date, don't ever text a man romantically. That will teach you healthy boundaries, prevent rumination and stop you from putting words above actions. Most importantly it will stop you from panicking over not hearing for someone for 2 days. Ideally the right man wouldn't be able to go 2 days without wondering about you but then he would be planning time to hang out with you so he can hear all about what you've been up to. And a man who truly likes you won't have you guessing about his feelings ever. Please understand that last sentence and keep it as law.
Maybe it was a car accident or a medical event. Maybe he’s making 36hr stock that needs to be stirred counterclockwise continuously. Maybe his girlfriend blocked your number.
I don’t think considering things would take that long, also it’s not too hard to just send a short message letting u know what’s going on even if he’s extremely busy, if he doesn’t respect you and your time, he doesn’t deserve it
I have really bad executive dysfunction so I'll forget people exist if I don't see them regularly, I can reply to your text in my head and never actually send it and think everything is fine for weeks
May be completely oblivious and not thinking about any thing at all
He's not into you 😞
Hearted, she has to accept the truth.
We make time for those we want and like. It's sad when it's not reciprocated but at least he showed her
You can't really tell. It's best to accept whatever decision he makes. You need to be happy with yourself and except things for what they are. If he smells a stench of nervousness/neediness/panic from you then its over. I know because im a guy myself. Give the man space and date around.. Don't settle.
If a guy takes more than a day to reply I just assume he's not that into me
It means he's already forgotten about a dumbass of a woman like you who'd ask this kind of a question
Idk but if he can go a day without chatting you, you're not the one babydoll
If he hasn’t shown consistent interest or made an effort, don’t give it any more of your energy. Know your worth and move forward toward someone who is genuinely interested.
If you're talking to someone romantically and they disappear for days, quit putting forth effort. Move on.
Just automatically assumed they will all ghost and just avoid these ridiculous disposable "mini" relationships altogether
Maybe he doesn't want to mess it up 🤔
He's employed. Relax.
The very simple answer is “if he wanted to, he would”. Just pay attention to how he arranges his priorities. A man that finds you or whoever to be a priority is going to find a way to reach out. You’re going to get a good morning and probably a good night at minimum.
This is such a dumb take. That works both ways, so maybe instead of putting the onus on him, maybe she should actually communicate her concerns with him.
It’s a dumb take to realize that priorities are what they are? It doesn’t mean he’s a bad person. Maybe he’s just not into it. And that’s fine. I completely agree that she should communicate. But sometimes they won’t respond. They just go ghost. It happens.
It’s a dumb take because it completely disregards most of the psychological factors for why people do things. People don’t just do something because they want to and making this claim is always just an assumption. You don’t know any of the other factors involved. That’s why you take is stupid.
If he wanted to he would
Ghosting
It depends on the guy and situation. Most likely ghosting but not necessarily.
Tbh I've had it where a guy just needs space after we talked a bunch, and he comes back and then things carry on well
But it's not worth getting anxious/stressed over btw!
If it’s me. I just get busy and focus on working.
It means he has someone else that has his attention.
I got to my cottage regularly where I have very poor signal(this is a perk). If I am chatting with someone in a romantic way. I always warn them. Hey, I am going to my cottage to unplug I will talk to you when I am back in civilization.
Same question, different gender: If a woman goes quiet for a day or two, is she making a decision about the connection or simply ghosting?