Cause you haven't fallen in love to want to fix the relationship and there was no foundation from preventing it falling apart.
I was in love. He refused to do anything for the relationship or try. Why would i stay?
Key word "was" why stay when the love has been gone?
people in replies mad you're not morally depraved enough to fight for the country 😄 seems like you put effort into the relationship too, if a partner refuses therapy then they're the one who gave up first imo. you just made it official
Yeah, this is the worse mentality. Relationships never just work out from existing. They work because two people put in the work because they love each other enough to do so. Being with someone in that way is more often than not a work in progress, they don’t just magically work out with zero effort. Especially over longer periods of time.
But if a relationship is just not working it should end 🤷🏻♀️
Ehh depends on what’s going on. If no effort was put in, then you’re just letting the relationship die without even trying to see what the issue is.
The issue is im not happy and miserable 🤷🏻♀️ i divorced my ex bc he was being an asshole while not having a job and refused therapy
Ha, I wish I had half that mentality. I think.
