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lavender_hamper · 4 hearts · 32 replies

Do you think cheating inherently makes you a bad person?

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by violet_flowing · 3 hearts

Depends on the reason, everyone has a story

by white_license · 3 hearts

No. Context really matters.

by Oogaboogaa · 3 hearts

Cheating on your diet? No. Cheating on a partner? Yes.

by BELL·POPPY · 2 hearts

No, but it does break trust, gives unfair advantages, and breaks rules. No matter the context, those are facts.

by HereIsMe8 · 2 hearts

Yes. Grow up and be honest. It's ok to want someone else and keep your person, but all involved should know

by lavender_hamper · 1 heart

Just to be clear I’m not cheating. I’m doing research for a book.

by HereIsMe8 · 1 heart

Married for a long time. We both cheated. We have been open swing/poly for 10 years and very happy

by lavender_sculpting · 1 heart

Depends on the situation

by SuccubusForYou · 1 heart

No

by red_downfall · 1 heart

Yes

by ☀️🔆☀️🔆☀️🔆 · 1 heart

Yes a heinous person because it is absolutely breaking trust dynamics and incosiderative towards the self image of your current partner. You avoid being humane because you didnt put the effort in to communicate or to break off with someone to follow what you need but cant figure out with your current partner. You avoid the uncomfterable because you secretly dont want to lose the foundation of love you have and yet prioritise yourself above and unrealistically so by going for someone else. Stop wasting everyones time and feelings and just break up before you date someone else. Sometimes your actions can have drastic impact on others and you are not alone in this world. If you dont care about your current partner doesnt matter , you could have possibly giving their next partner your shit consequences

by white_speakerphone · 1 heart

Yep

by Anonnymously · 1 heart

For a man yes,for a woman NO

by lavender_hamper · 1 heart

Explain

by Bi-Guy99 · 0 hearts

Without a doubt.

by Cloud-Tiger · 0 hearts

Yes

by T_0ri · 0 hearts

Yeah.

by Baked Tater · 0 hearts

Absolutely

by teal_wait · 0 hearts

No

by Shiny-cherub · 0 hearts

More like a selfish person

by maroon_spies · 0 hearts

absolutely, borderline sociopathic behavior

by grey_laughter · 0 hearts

Yup

by fuchsia_disregard · 0 hearts

I think it's definitely not something that's as bad as most people make it out to be

by Mommy of 5 · 0 hearts

Yes. The End

by CupidStunt · 0 hearts

So your husband is pretty fucking awful

by Mommy of 5 · 1 heart

He's not cheating?

by SciGuy · 0 hearts

99.9% of the time, yes.

by PartnersInCrime · 0 hearts

Cheating and lying are red flags

by Scarlett Reed · 0 hearts

There's no excuse for cheating