31. Want kids within 5 years…The guy I’m seeing is on the fence about it…am I kidding myself that he’ll actually agree one day…
Girl! I am almost 30. Kids for me are a nonnegotiable. Find a man who knows he wants kids too. Life is too short to waste on someone who might never want what you do.
You need to sit down and have an honest conversation. If he doesnt want kids and you do. Don't waste both of your time.
You don't have a ton of time biologically. Go to someone that does want kids
Tell him condoms aren't required to ride & he can finish inside. You'll be knocked up in no time
Any women who just want to get pregnant in the NJ area, I'll volunteer and i dont need to be involved in raising them. I already have 3 I'm almost done with.
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Yes. I wish I left my partner before this point, 7 years and nothing to show for it. Hope vs action.
Any child you bring into the world at bare minimum deserves 2 parents that actively wanted them. Not one parent that had to come around to the idea because their partner wanted it.
I'd leave now. Wasted 3 yrs on a guy with this same bs just to hear him tell me he never actually loved me...
You should have done that in your 20's. Females have expiration dates.
That's her fault
#1 reason to break up. If you have to “talk him into” it he won’t be helping with kids or anything.
I said that about marriage and look at me I'm almost 40 and after 9 years, he's still just a boyfriend.
Why even bother if it isn't an enthusiastic yes? You'll just end up miserable with a partner that doesn't pull the weight.
Exactly, she's more focused on the kids than a natural connection and things getting their on its own.
If a man in his 30s doesn't know if he wants kids he is lying to you or is one of the least decisive men alive.
As someone who doesn’t want kids myself… get someone who is completely sure that they want them. This is a huge decision for a relationship and you need someone who shares the same views on it. I wouldn’t be with my bf if he wanted kids.
Run girl. Dont waste them eggs waiting
Personally for me if he is on the fence I'd break up with him especially if I want kids and he still doesn't know yet.
He has every right not to want kids! That’s a convo you too need to have! Kids are something you don’t just have on a whim!
Kidding your self
Kids is the first thing you should talk about in a relationship. Wait and see is not viable. If you aren't on the same page then find a new book instead of trying to rewrite it.
If i was the guy I'd run tbh bc that sounds like alot of pressure then things happening naturally
If he doesn't want kids and you do move on why stay with someone that doesn't want the same as you leave stop wasting your time
Damn…
Yup. Thats a deal breaker. You both want different things and that wont change unless one of you loses a piece of yourself! Time to move one
Yup...
I just hut 30 and can't even find someone I want to have kids with. Shit sucks.
I had to end my relationship because of the same reason