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I_E_D_K_ · 5 hearts · 23 replies

Three times now my friends have tried to set me up with guys and I've just had no attraction or interest in them. Its frustrating and depressing that I feel like I'm too picky for how I look and I just need to settle

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by Boxedinn · 3 hearts

Settling for less than what you want is how you end up in an unhealthy relationship you're not happy in. Settling is the worst thing you can do

by PinkDragon🩷 · 1 heart

NEVER EVER SETTLE!

by Señor Thankful · 1 heart

It's not about settling for less than what you want. It's about learning to still be able to see value in people who don't meet the standards you currently have.

by Boxedinn · 1 heart

Nobody is obligated to give someone a chance though.

by Señor Thankful · 0 hearts

By trying to see the value in others, she might just be giving the biggest chance to herself

by Boxedinn · 0 hearts

Like I said, she's not obligated to give them a chance if she isn't actually interested in them. Men aren't owed a relationship or an opportunity for one with a woman who obviously isn't attracted to them. Stop being self entitled

by Pics I no send · 1 heart

I feel this

by Red-dwarf star · 0 hearts

So what is your type of man then?

by teal_parking · 0 hearts

if theres no attraction whats the point though? your not picky you deserve nothing but the best

by hatemen · 0 hearts

Never settle!!!!!!!!!! oh my god please please please please please please please

by The Black Susie · 0 hearts

Same! I tell everyone I don’t know until I meet him if I even like him so don’t set me up.

by DeviousBstrd · 0 hearts

When you don't like them, do your friends pester you about why not and that you should basically be thankful for anyone being remotely interested in you even when they aren't what you're interested in, and that you should go out with them anyway because "attraction might come with time"?

by SongCollector · 0 hearts

What type of guy are you looking for?

by I_E_D_K_ · 0 hearts

Just someone I get along with, feel safe with and am attracted to

by Plague rat · 0 hearts

Well hopefully you make good money or something. Need something to entice the men you want if your fat body wont

by I_E_D_K_ · 0 hearts

I make good money for me, not for anyone else

by Boxedinn · 0 hearts

Sounds like you're projecting.

by Plague rat · 0 hearts

Why are you pretending like high profile men want a fat bitch with nothing to offer? I know a lot of high profile and not a single one is dating some fat bitch. Im not projecting just being realistic. But if she has money then she can buy some handsome man she wants just the men do.

by Go Bucks · 0 hearts

Are you fat?

by I_E_D_K_ · 1 heart

Yeah

by Go Bucks · 0 hearts

I figured.

by I_E_D_K_ · 2 hearts

Okay?