Most men are visual. They sure as hell don't listen well.
Then why do most men not take pride in their appearance. Why do most of them not live in a visually appealing environment? Men claimed to be visual creatures, but their apartment looks like shit and they’ve been wearing the same dirty hoodie for three weeks now 
They aren't into looks like that. They like to see things, plan how to manipulate said things. Then do it. Like making a wooden table from scratch or installing a new door. That also applies to the sexualization of a women. They are very visual and hands on creatures, but a completely different kind of visual compared to women.
Yeah, so it’s only manipulation. They don’t want to look good. They only want women to look good. They don’t want their apartment to be clean. They only want women to look good.