It's really frustrating when your partner takes how you react to plans changing so personally. It's not about you. It's called being autistic. I don't like when schedules change. Please send help.


Is it though? Or is it an inability to adapt? It's not like it's darwinism and life or death.. maybe take a deep breath and move on.
Eventually I do move on but I have struggled with the ability to quickly adapt to plan changes and schedule alterations my entire life, even as a child. I am autistic, though. Lol. There's no doubting that.
i deeply feel u
Felt this in my soul
Then it might sound as if they either don't care or have some more work to do on themselves. Either way, y'all might not be meant for each other.
SAME. I rely on routines and don't handle it well when plans are changed up last minute.
This particular exchange bothered me more than it normally would because he said he was changing the plans and then said goodnight and left me kind of hanging when he knows I don't handle schedule changes at all when we have a set routine. But I need to find a way to be more flexible because of the reason he has to change the plans in the first place. I don't know how to do that though.
I'm sorry, I completely understand. Sometimes even when it's reasonable they change plans, it can still be difficult to deal with. Maybe you can find resources that can help you reframe the situation! I hope it starts to get better for you soon.
I should probably talk about it in therapy.. lol.
Why would someone date a woman who is retarded AND fat?
I'm not retarded, though. I'm actually quite intelligent. And plenty of people like fat women. As if you even have any room to talk you basement dwelling month old cum sock. 😂
Actually no. No one with options would ever choose a fat woman. Thats a myth created by ugly feminists and simps who can’t get laid. And no. Autists are retarded.
Okay I see what's happening here. You're just trash. It's okay, I was trash once too and then I worked on myself. You can too.