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Cherrylipz · 35 hearts · 41 replies

I want a relationship, but I love being alone and having my space. I want to love hard, but I’m a slow burn. I want a kiss, but I’m not ready to be intimate with anyone. Im ready, but I’m not.

41 replies

by white_forest · 4 hearts

Felt this way for years. You'll be loved!

by whoa eriKk · 3 hearts

Relatable. I'm a loner and love being alone so much. I also have so much love to give. I'm just like 'no one deserves it' lol

by Cherrylipz · 1 heart

EXACTLY. you get it, it’s not that we are scared, we just know our worth to well.

by Spin_lilac · 3 hearts

Same 🙃. "How are you single? " I'm in the house

by Pretty_air · 2 hearts

I loooove being alone as well maybe a date a blue collar worker , they are usually to busy to be annoying

by ✨💖💖💖✨ · 0 hearts

They make the time to be annoying, believe me. All men are annoying

by ur_goldengirl · 2 hearts

I think the longer you stay single, the more you feel this way. I’ve been single for 5yrs and I’m 23. I actually don’t think I know how to date. Not successfully at least, not without self sabotage. Though, I don’t have interest in dating in the first place, haven’t for 3yrs anyway. The refusal to be open, honest, genuine, and real with someone is bigger than the desire to be loved and intimate with someone. What a bitch. Any tips, tricks, advice that I probably won’t follow?

by The Black Susie · 2 hearts

It does suck because most men will not provide good sex unless you’re interested in a relationship with them and all those domestic duties.

by BASED GOD · 2 hearts

👀

by green_solitaire · 1 heart

So real

by ☀️🔆☀️🔆☀️🔆 · 1 heart

... you are ready or you are not ready. You are not ready but there is a word for this : longing.

by CapnCrunch · 1 heart

I was with my daughter mom 13 years, now I've been broken up with her for 7 n I've never been so happy having my own space. Now I can also give my daughter a safe place too 😁

by Varka · 1 heart

Even writing comments here makes me feel like putting unnecessary effort or kinda cringed..... There are some serious changes required

by Anonnymously · 1 heart

Exactly like me

by bunnysweetmess · 1 heart

... very relatable, i fear

by Glorious_Yam · 1 heart

Exactly how I feel. But I've come to terms that guys dont like the slow build up anymore so I just gave up.

by Cherrylipz · 0 hearts

Yes, men make it easy to be celibate lol but it’s okay. I do still believe there’s someone out there, it’s just not my time yet💕 same for you and don’t change!

by mareee · 1 heart

felt

by Chipsssssth · 1 heart

Just say you’re not ready and don’t try until you are ready

by Cherrylipz · 0 hearts

That’s exactly what I have done. I’m just expressing myself here. I’m single but not looking.. yet.

by orchid_semester · 1 heart

I’m sort of the same way

by Get_Lost_art · 1 heart

Your a walking heart break who prays on vulnerability to feel empowered enough to give the other person just enough to latch on and get manipulated to get attached and stuck only to find an empty person who could care less about who’s world they just completely fucking annihilated …. Why??? Oh yea CAUSE YOU DONT FUCKING KNOW WHAT YOU FUCKING WANT SO FUCK EVERYBODY ELSE! Your pond scum I hope you cramp up right before an orgasm arrives the rest of your life! Cause what you cause you never see the damages you cause!!

by Cherrylipz · 4 hearts

Can we give this one a cup of water, you sound parched.

by Snorlaid · 7 hearts

Yikes. Someone needs to go to therapy to heal from their trauma.

by volendrung · 0 hearts

hilarious crash out

by RomanceisDead27 · 0 hearts

I feel the exact same way

by bug🐞 · 0 hearts

Soo real

by blue_whispers · 0 hearts

Introverted, past trauma, combination of both, other?

by Cherrylipz · 0 hearts

Actually I’m hella extroverted, any recent trauma is from the dating pool. But I built myself up and I’m not ready to allow someone in. I’m truly great full but I’m selfish with my heart.

by blue_whispers · 1 heart

I hear that on the dating pool, it is a mess out there. I hope you find someone worthy of letting in!

by Crispytogo · 0 hearts

This describes the most annoying person to encounter on a dating app

by Cherrylipz · 0 hearts

Not dating… obviously 🙄 do you not see the last part “ I’m not ready” chill I’m just venting here. No one should date if they aren’t ready to.

by Im__here · 0 hearts

You are damaged goods. Sad.

by Cherrylipz · 1 heart

Oh sweet soul, it’s the fact that I know my worth it’s challenging finding someone who is worthy of me. That’s my challenge.

by Prometheus_NC · 0 hearts

You would be an easy lay. Then I would fucking ghost you

by Cherrylipz · 0 hearts

Your type is too predictable, easily categorically the type to never catch my attention. Delulu if you to think you could have a chance 😅

by Prometheus_NC · 0 hearts

Many women have said the same. I've heard "I can't believe I'm doing this..." countless times luv You're no one special

by Cherrylipz · 1 heart

Yes it’s a pandemic of bad dating pool. I’m as basic as they come. I just don’t do it, I’m waiting to be ready. Or someone might change that in me luv. Either way I’m just expressing. Take a Chill pill and swallow.