Women are allowed to set boundaries with their silence. They don’t have to provide an explanation. The onus is on us to recognize said boundary. Especially given men typically become irascible when rejected directly.
It's crazy because just a week ago a woman said no and she got hit in the face with a brick. But some men will still call us crazy or self-absorbed if we get nervous about random men speaking to us
Precisely. A lot of it is our completely myopic mindset. Those of us who know that story A) view it as an isolated incident as if men are not up in arms everyday over rejection and B) don’t realize that there’s no discernible difference between us and a psychopath (IF there’s a difference between the two). Statistically speaking, any of us could be holding the next brick. It’s not up to us to decide what a woman should be comfortable with saying.
That same woman has nothing but her word to prove what she’s saying while there is video evidence of her smacking white men in the face because they’re white so…
You alpha pro lunatics will use up anything to make women seem like they deserve the abuse we get. If you would have done five extra minutes of research you would realize that all of those videos your referencing are skits of hers they were jokes everyone in those videos were in on it.
What is it about setting boundaries that makes men want to push and push and push until we change our minds? Just the other night I had a guy keep asking to touch my stomach, more specifically my belly button, asked me on a date at least 3 times after he claimed he understood I want no involvement with men and I lost count of how many times I said no and that I wasn't changing my answer. If I ever run into him again I really don't think he'll be able to get a clue that his actions were problematic and I have no intention of speaking to him again.
i wonder why you stuck around in that convo so long.
That part of the conversation started happening near the end of us hanging out and I started insisting he take me home.
thanks for clarifying :) keep being direct, its the only way.
Cringe.
Women say no and they get called wh*re, sl*t and f*cking ugly by men who don't know what they look like. Women say no and get told they deserve to be assaulted. Women say no or I am not interested just to be argued with repeatedly even though no is a complete sentence. No not all men are this terrible, but since we don't know if you are going to say "ok cool have a good one" or you are going to say we deserve to be gang r*ped, we are just going to go ahead and ghost.
Cringe how? Do explain…
Exactly this. And our privilege allows us to view being ghosted as an insult.
Exactly. I am just sick of the ones who when I state a clear and simple reason why I am not interested in their "propositions" they think it is appropriate to argue with me. My options are repeating my point 20 times or ghosting. I guess he thinks we are supposed to waste our time repeating ourselves endlessly.
i will only explain if the man is genuinely interested in knowing why.
Makes sense. Otherwise we’re brick walls and time wasters.
Oh yeah talking to men sometimes is exactly like talking to a brick wall. especially when you're trying to convince them they're wrong
Says whoever Yonex should be accountable for there actions if you can't handle people's reactions mabey think before you do things because one of these days u might get put in your place and silence won't help your comfort zone