I’m 20 and my bf is 35 and he says he won’t be with me if I go to college parties….why doesn’t he get im there for my girlfriends? What do I do 😓
one day when you get older you're gonna regret wasting your best years with an old man. there's are reasons why he's not dating a woman his own age and none of them are good
Don’t be stupid.
Found another single middle aged LOSER of a man who exclusively chases after girls half his age! Run ladies!!
My ex was like that lol and then, I realized he’s the loser of his age group. Hence, he’s now an ex.
Dump your controling father figure & be with your own people
Amen
girl if you don't leave that senior citizen
Yeh fuck him right off out of there. He's obviously a control freak. This is the danger when dating single people in their 30s, they are all single for a reason
Leave unc.
um you’re a baby. go to your parties. enjoy them! a huge lesson us females don’t learn until too much time has gone by is, dont waste your time on a guy. esp one thats holding you back. hes not your best friend. you just think that. hes actually gross, for dating you. you’re very young, so what legal, you dnt really understand life n shit until youre atleast 30. live girl. shame on him. dont be scared to be alone, you have to give time for life to send u the RIGHT man. i promise.
Get someone your own age. Otherwise you’re just someone to control to him
How about date someone your own age
You stop dating a predator.
The choice is yours. Do what you want. But, your bf communicated with you his boundaries of the relationship. If you respect his boundaries, you shouldn't go. If you don't respect his boundaries, then go. He's not preventing you from going by force, he just won't be involved with you if you decide to not respect his boundaries. However, whatever you do, do not lie to him. Don't go party and say you didn't. If that boundary is a deal breaker, talk to him and end the relationship. If its not a deal breaker, you love him, and want to be with him? Then don't go, and respect his wishes. I swear some people think dating is some huge mystery like. It's not.
Well said
Girl if you don't just break up with him. That's a 15 year age gap lmfaooooo. Why are you pouting about some middle age toe fungus when you're literally at an all you can eat buffet?
You're very clearly a guy pretending to be a girl
35 and 20? He is a loser, dump him
Girl he’s in a whole different place in life, find someone who actually gets you
College parties aren't good for you, but neither is a controlling boyfriend. You're losing either way tbh.
Acknowledge the red flag and drop the anchor.
Dump him. He's with you because women his own age see through his BS
Hmm sounds like you aren't ready for a relationship, as a woman I prefer to respect my mans wishes if I had one that is
Insane to blame the 20 year old in the situation for wanting a normal college experience. The men aren’t going to pick you.
That's why you ain't getting picked 😒
He sounds insecure. Cut em loose!
I'm 37, you should not ever be dating a 35 year old. At all.
Why not
Fucking shoot him in the dick before he strangles you
Get a bf that's not insecure
He’s a fully grown man, working etc. you’re a college girl, go find someone your age.
Go anyway. Your bf is a futureless loser that's why he has to pick up young girls. Find someone in your age bracket.
this is it. that dude sucks. the age gap is sus especially when he's already being controlling. he's a loser, drop himmm
Not controlling.