Heart this post if you used to meet folks off the old app but stopped because folks got to weird
The one I met wasn’t weird and a great person tbf
I never met anyone from either app
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Folks were always weird. One need to follow proper precautions and judgement in choosing to meet. I've met 3-4 women from here and all meetings went smooth
Nah you just need better discernment for who is decent and who isn't.
Mines pretty good already. Its just not worth the headache. I do better just getting up and going out.
This is true. And actually reading through your discussion with white_barbecue just solidifies that. BTW I've talked to him in DM before and you're right about what you say about him. He is a shit person, just another serial cheater always bitching about his wife and making gross perverted posts and talking about cheating and meeting people for sex.
Yup the type is very easy to spot and they all deny being like they obviously are. I think thats why alot of women feel its safer to just lump in most or all men. I dont in person but online I have way more standards then I do in person. Ive found that when u make a post its usually the person with the shoe that fits that pops up trying to discuss
No, what I did was respond truthfully about the past. I didn't "make it about sex." You posted about meeting up off of whisper. I didn't directly bring up sex, you did. You're the reason things went there, and yet somehow it's my fault that you took what was a civil discussion on my end and made personal attacks on me. Your unresolved trauma, whatever that is, is not a reason to be hostile as a replacement for getting therapy, and does not justify you going off on me when I did nothing wrong, and I'm calling you out because you did shit thing directly to me
Sorry but u literally said "meet up for fun" referencing sex. I knew that which is why i asked if you were refrecing sex incase i was wrong. U can be indenial all u like its ok. Not my job to convince a jerk he's a jerk. I think youre upset and super defensive because I hit the nail on the head. Youre already resorting to being an internet psychologist and suggesting something is wrong woth me mentally...I very typical and weak defense mechanism of the guilty.
You clearly have issues, decided to pick a fight about it despite my intentionally not going directly down that path, and then tried to take a high road you weren't entitled to after being a shit person to me when I had done nothing to you. That's not me being an "internet psychologist," setting aside the fact that with my certifications I can actually make DSM-V diagnoses if I really wanted to, it makes me a person with a brain who can see your bullshit
Thank u for proving my point. I didnt even have to read all that🤣🤣
I only stopped because there wasn't anyone real to meet up with
Theres plenty real people. Real jerks and losers. Thats why majority stopped meeting up.
I wasn't really active on Whisper during the pandemic; prior to the pandemic, at least during daytime, the local feed had lots of non-sex posts. After the pandemic, Whisper was pretty much like what Hush is now...and the real people who I could converse with, show that I was a real person to, and then meet up with for a fun time had all left
Im aware. I feel the same..but what do u mean by fun time? If u mean sex then sorry youre no different then anyone else and likely part of the reason the app turned the way it did