What is the point of waiting for a date and just talking. Meet in a public place. Problem solved
The world is dangerous for women at least have some conversation before its only polite and caring about her safety you literally are a stranger.
Yes of course. The rules women know to follow are simple
men vs. self preservation
LMFAOOO that quiet part! They dont care im telling you
Right?? A little conversation is mandatory!
IKR!!! holy fuck
Everyone is different. Some women want to be asked on a date very quickly.
There's too quick like if theres no convo before hand besides Hi is crazy to meet
Men just do not understand (intellectually or emotionally) how unsafe women can feel with strangers.
THAT PART omg !!!! You're spot in
Had a dude ask me to meet up 4 messages in. I wanna know if we have something in common before I waste my time getting dressed up and drive to God knows where
IM saying. Youre spot on, thats not too much to ask for.
I mean, why are you on a dating app if your not looking to go on dates? Sure. It’s super sus to be getting in bed with people that fast.
I dont mind meeting people. But atleast have some sort of conversation or phone call first the world is so dangerous for women
I like to meet sooner than later because it tells me if I’m really interested or not, and because I’m looking for a real relationship, not more screen time. That said, I prefer meeting somewhere public, and don’t mind a phone call first either
See thats perfect a phone call first atleast gives a opening to meeting, not just so meet me here tomorrow
Totally get where you’re coming from 🙏
Preciate ya, you get it 💯
Seems like a lack of perspective and little to no standards. No matter what someone’s pictures look like, I’m never trying to meet a stranger from the internet today.
Idk, I just think safety is number one and that may be a culture shock to some men
Think the lack of concern for safety is part of the lack of perspective. They’ve never had to worry about safety and they’ve never stopped to think about what you might be worried about.
SO TRUE OMG, I see what ya mean. Its so crazy right
YUP. Very off-putting. The guy I'm currently seeing we texted for at least a week before meeting. Thankfully I have pretty good character judgment skills lol
Thats incredible hell yeah
