Ive been told I shouldn't pay for my friends when going on vacation but if I dont, they cant go and I'd never have friends to go on vacation with
Make an itinerary and travel solo!
That's called being used, true friends won't do that to you
Solo travel?
I cant, I find doing most things extremely boring. The only thing I enjoy alone is reading books
That's fair. To me as an outsider I feel your being used. Are your friends all for this or just expectant you'll pay?
One of our friends yes, hes very selfish(I think it has to do with him growing up in a type of cult) but my other is my cousin. He cant work anymore and is trying to get disability so I dont mind paying for him. When I had no job, he always made sure I was taken care of
Spend your money on what makes you happy!