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Tired-Times · 12 hearts · 171 replies

My daughter wants to wear only black, I don’t care what she wears as long as she’s happy, but her dad has an issue with it and is forcing her to wear clothes she doesn’t like. Am I being too chill or is he being mean?

171 replies

by LikeTheGem · 6 hearts

He's being controlling, and why are we going on hush of all places for parenting advice?

by muscle mommy · 5 hearts

Tell her father to piss off

by Sleepysiren 007 · 5 hearts

Nothing wrong with black. It pairs well with everything.

by cyan_modernity · 5 hearts

He's being incredibly controlling and teaching her that what she wants doesn't matter, you're doing the right thing by not having an issue with it, tell him to knock it the fuck off

by Sadisticbby114 · 4 hearts

You need to correct him

by Witchyemostoner · 4 hearts

He sounds like a lil bitch

by Little Miss Mia · 4 hearts

Let her be an alt girlie if she wants. Dad is lame.

by turquoise_comfort · 4 hearts

See this is a problem when men have absolutely zero respect for females being able to choose what they do with their own body and anatomy. That's why he has a problem it's about control and it's dangerous. I completely agree with you, if it's not revealing, or bad then absolutely she should be able to choose

by AF1278 · 0 hearts

Theres a ton of men in the comments saying hes a douche, and my mother was the one who felt the need to control my body. So, maybe like fuck off?

by turquoise_comfort · 0 hearts

Blocked

by Cncmeeee · 3 hearts

No he's being controlling and abusive. Theyre clothes. A COLOUR.

by Bonbon ✨ · 3 hearts

Literally who cares what colours your kid wears. He’s being insane

by Blackened clown · 3 hearts

Her dad sounds like a wanker

by EmpressSabine · 3 hearts

Nobody should tell anyone what to wear

by Nvxafjype · 3 hearts

He's being mean, he needs to mind his business

by whorrific · 3 hearts

her dad sounds like a controlling asshole. do your kid a favor and stand up to him and teach her she's allowed to make small decisions for herself, so she will know how to make harder decisions later in life, or else she'll have men dictating what she does if she watches you stand back and let him treat her like this.

by GothBethDutton · 3 hearts

He's being mean

by Iihgtukbyuu · 3 hearts

The dad is being controlling. Kids get so little choices growing up, let her have control over her clothes/look. Yknow as long as it’s appropriate and safe. I had two older siblings that were VERY emo and scene. Our step dad would always be a bully, but our mom was supportive.

by purple_culture · 3 hearts

Don’t let your husband bully your daughter.

by Tired-Times · 0 hearts

He’s my ex.

by lime_deduction · 3 hearts

He's chosen to die on a hill that is tactically useless.

by Tired-Times · 0 hearts

I agree.

by whorrific · 2 hearts

you're being too chill in regards to your husband being a dick and you standing idly by.

by Tired-Times · 1 heart

He’s my ex

by whorrific · 0 hearts

oh thank god 👏🏼 then no, stand up for her, with her, to allow her the freedom to wear whatever she wants (within appropriate reason blah blah).

by azure_formamide · 2 hearts

As an alternative girl why does he care so long as it’s her choice and she’s not wearing anything inappropriate for her age plus what’s wrong with the color black lmfao a bit silly

by Lipsonlips · 2 hearts

Hes being a dick.

by Youngs 69 · 1 heart

😂😂😂

by WhimsiGothRed · 2 hearts

My parents were like this. My mom supported my alt style, my dad did not. I the end, he won, but I just kept those clothes at my best friends house and would change there. It also led to me being miserable at ho e and out with family and I would try to push it as far as I could. Its clothing, not drugs and hookers. He's gotta accept shes not gonna stay a little girl forever and she has her own thoughts and expressions

by LookingAround9 · 2 hearts

Kinda weird to force her to wear colors she doesn't want. Not like it's a skimpy clothes issue or anything like that

by Pixarthot · 2 hearts

Your husband sounds like a controlling dickhead 😂

by _Random_ · 2 hearts

Black is the best color to wear